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13 Sexy Ways to Use a Blindfold

You may have heard the theory that if one of your 5 senses doesn’t work, then the other four senses become heightened. For example, a blind person could have a heightened sense of hearing, or a deaf person has a heighten sense of taste. This is the theory behind using blindfolds during sex. If you take away a person’s sense of sight then their sense of touch, scent, sound and taste will be much stronger. Taking away the sense of sight also helps to lessen performance anxiety in the bedroom and allows a person to really let loose without feeling self conscious.

You might think that blindfolds are only for kinky couples who are into BDSM, but that’s not the case. Blindfolds can be a fun and hot way to spice things up. Here are 14 different ways to use a blindfold during sex:

1. Make a blind map of your partner’s body – The blindfolded person will be the one doing the exploring with this fun activity. One person puts the blindfold on their partner and the non blindfolded person gets naked and lies down on the bed. The blindfolded person should touch and explore the other person’s body. It will be as if they are touching you for the very first time and it will be a huge turn on to see them gently exploring.

2. Be the dominant one – Blindfolding one person is a great way to play with dominance and submission in a relationship. First you can change things up by having the usually dominant person get blindfolded and have the other partner take the reins. The non blindfolded person should direct the show. He or she will decide what you’re going to do and how, and the blindfolded person will take orders.

3. Give pleasure – The most common way a blindfold is used during sex is to completely pleasure the person who has been blindfolded. Let them lie back and be the receiver. Give an erotic massage or perform oral sex.

4. Sexy buffet – Just like in the movie 9 ½ Weeks, you can create a sexy buffet and feed your partner a tasting menu of things while she is blindfolded. You would be surprised at what a turn on this can be for both of you.

5. New sensations – Try running different things over your partner’s skin while she is blindfolded. Try a feather, an ice cube, the tips of your fingers, your nails, a piece of silk, a piece of suede, etc.

6. The blind erotic massage – Get out the massage oil and give your partner a full body erotic massage while she is blindfolded. She will be completely at your mercy as you run your hands over her body.

7. Put on a show – For many people watching their partner masturbate is a huge turn on, but the other person might feel too self conscious to perform. A blindfold is the perfect tool to let that person close their eyes and forget they have an audience. They can just let loose and let their partner soak it up.

8. Use a vibrator on your partner – Using a sex toy, like a vibrator, can really take things up a notch. Since their focus is more on their remaining four senses, sensation sensibility will be at an all time high and a vibrator will feel even more intense.

9. Take it a step further – You’ve already eliminated the sense of sight, so why not eliminate another sense to really make her focus on her sense of touch? Try using earplugs in addition to the blindfold and she will really be tuned into the sensations.

10. Always be tuned into her reactions – Being blindfolded can be a lot of fun, but it can also be really intense for some people. Sometimes people have reactions they might not have expected, like feeling claustrophobic or anxious. As you’re going along make sure that you’re always checking in with her to make sure she is comfortable and having fun.

11. Pro tip – Instead of tying your blindfold in the back in the traditional way, tie it on the side so when you’re partner rests her head back she doesn’t rest her head on the knot.

12. Pro tip 2 – Men tend to be very visual creatures, so women might like being blindfolded even more than men, but it’s worth trying it out and seeing if it’s for you.

13. Pro tip 3 – You don’t need to buy anything special to try out blindfolding. If you decide you like it, you can buy a special one, but until then you can use a silk scarf, a tie, a bandana or a pair of nylon stockings.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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