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My Top 100 Sex Tips to Spice Up Your Love Life, Create More Intimacy and Have Better Orgasms

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My Top 100 Sex Tips to Spice Up Your Love Life, Create More Intimacy and Have Better Orgasms

Hey there sweetheart!

When you have been giving sex advice as long as I have, you get a lot of great ideas over the years on ways you can spice up your sex life in the bedroom.

Last year I created the “Sexy Bucket List for Couples”  that has 50 great ideas on how to keep that sexy sizzle in your relationship.  This week, I give you “My Top 100 Sex Tips to Spice Up Your Love Life, Create More Intimacy and Have Better Orgasms”, which I hope will give you lots of juicy ideas to do just that.  But, not only am I going to give you my ultimate list (see below), but each week I will dive a little deeper into this list and give you detailed advice on how to make these sexy suggestions a reality.

Before we get started though, here are some tips to get the most out of this list.

Keep an Open Mind

Before you dive into any erotic adventure, you have to keep an open mind.  Many of us like to play it safe and do what is tried and true.  Unfortunately, routine (even your best move) gets boring after time, so you’ve got to change it up from time to time, and more often, the better. So be open to adding a bit of spice to your love life and don’t say no before you’ve even tried something at least once.

Learn a New Trick

Try to add a new sexual trick to your repertoire at least once a month.  It can be a little thing, like learning a new position to try, or a new oral sex move.  Decide what you want to learn, then go out a find resources to help you learn like articles or sex ed videos that show you how!  Incidentally, we have lots of amazing sex ed courses (videos) that will teach you a new trick right here at  So, start learning a new sexy trick today!

Listen to Each Other

The first place to start when you want to begin exploring your sex life together, is with each other.  This means having a conversation.  But, it doesn’t have to be heavy or serious, or about what you are not doing right at the moment.  Keep it playful and fun, and add on to the things you already like.  For example, you could say, “I really love giving and receiving oral sex.  Wouldn’t it be hot to have a whole night of just doing oral?”  Or, “I think we have a hot sex life, but I’d love to spice it up even more and try new exciting things.  What would you like to try that we have never done?”

So, those are the rules of play before you get started. Now take a look at this list and get some ideas you can both discuss together to begin your sexual adventure and heat up your sex life!

My Top 100 Sex Tips to Spice Up Your Love Life Are:

  1. Make a sexy bucket list
  2. Erotic dancing
  3. Make a date night
  4. Be spontaneous
  5. Try a new position
  6. Flirt
  7. Wear socks for more orgasms
  8. Read erotica
  9. Watch a romantic movie
  10. Watch porn together
  11. Do an activity together that revs up your adrenaline
  12. Try something new
  13. Prolong foreplay
  14. No orgasm sex
  15. Talk dirty
  16. Leave the lights on
  17. Keep your bedroom just for sleeping and sex
  18. Aphrodisiacs
  19. Use wine to unwind
  20. Morning sex
  21. Nooner sex
  22. Buy her lingerie
  23. Wwitch roles
  24. Girl on top
  25. Use scents
  26. Erotic massage
  27. Keep your clothes on make out session
  28. Use more lube
  29. Mutual masturbation
  30. Blindfolds
  31. Experiment with breath
  32. Sex in the shower
  33. Sexy picnic
  34. Sexy vacation
  35. Learn all her erogenous zones
  36. Role play
  37. Kegels for guys and gals
  38. Try a sex toy
  39. Sensation play
  40. Have a bath
  41. Stimulate the sacral nerve
  42. Seduce her with your eyes
  43. Strip poker
  44. Sex at a party
  45. Play “May I”
  46. Skinny dipping
  47. Take turns
  48. Try gratitude
  49. Lover’s lane
  50. Public sex
  51. Use a pillow for better positions
  52. Make noise
  53. Finger food foreplay
  54. Try yoga sex
  55. Describe a fantasy during sex
  56. Music seduction
  57. Compliment her
  58. Naughty notes
  59. Go with her flow and let her show you the way
  60. Don’t stop during orgasm
  61. Vary stimulation
  62. Whisper dirty nothings in public
  63. Sexy shopping spree
  64. Play teacher/student
  65. Sex and chocolate
  66. Ask and listen
  67. Be confident
  68. Surprise your partner
  69. Temperature play
  70. Drunk sex
  71. Explore fantasies
  72. Have sex more often, increases sex drive
  73. Breast sex
  74. Spanking
  75. Dirty dancing
  76. Tantra sex
  77. Erotic food fight
  78. Try sexting
  79. Lap dance
  80. CAT (coital alignment technique)
  81. Try abstaining for a week
  82. Bondage
  83. Dominate her
  84. Mirror sex
  85. Create a sexy bedroom
  86. Play rough
  87. More foreplay
  88. Romance her
  89. Take a sexy dance class together
  90. Get a manicure for better finger play
  91. Give her a foot massage
  92. Practice kissing
  93. Learn the art of multiple male orgasms
  94. Work out to increase testosterone (oooh, sexy!)
  95. Learn energy orgasms
  96. Grope her on the dance floor
  97. Rooftop sex
  98. Try every position in the karma sutra at least once
  99. Edible body products and oral sex
  100. Snap chat sexy images to each other

Want some more sexy date ideas?  Check out Magical Date Mastery to learn how to reinvigorate your sex life.

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  1. sachin ghadge

    September 8, 2016 at 5:32 pm


  2. ddingledine

    October 7, 2016 at 9:48 pm

    Hot damn. You hit it out of the park. I’m glad I’m on this webpage. Wife ant I have been distant. This can help.

  3. Blitz

    October 7, 2016 at 11:01 pm

    I’ve been in a wheelchair for 4 years and have a lovely lady in my life. Though I’m paraplegic, we’ve tried many of these erotic suggestions and a few that aren’t listed. I am working hard to walk again, and the love and adventurous nature of this good woman is critical to me. She loves to rub my back from behind me, then shift to the front and sit on my lap. Then the real enjoyment begins! Keep coming up with these bucket list suggestions…. the world needs them!

  4. abdul halim yusof

    October 8, 2016 at 4:44 am


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