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My Top Sex Tips – Digest # 1

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My Top Sex Tips – Digest # 1

This week I posted “My Top 100 Sex Tips to Spice Up Your Love Life, Create More Intimacy and Have Better Orgasms” and promised to go deeper (and deeper) into these tips to give you more juicy details on how you can make your sex life more exciting and fulfilling.

So, here is my top 5 sex tips from that list in more detail!

  1. Make a sexy bucket list

My very first tip is to create a sexy bucket list as a couple, so you have a starting point to begin your hot naughty adventures.  This is a “must do” if you want to find out each others likes, wants and desires, explore each others fantasies and even taboos together.  Because if you don’t know what your partner wants, how will you be able to create new sexy adventures together?  Plus, studies show that the rush of trying new things together releases endorphin’s, which creates stronger bonds between lovers.

In an article I wrote last year, “Sexy Bucket List for Couples” I go into detail on how to do this together and give you 50 ideas you can start with to get your erotic juices flowing.  So, go and check out the link above to get started!

  1. Erotic dancing

Dancing together is very intimate and seductive. It involves eye contact, physical touch, and being in the moment, all of which creates a deep degree of intimacy.

There are lots of different types of dancing you can do together, or solo for your partner.  Slow dancing while making out as you grind your bodies together is super hot and a great way to begin foreplay.  A saucy Latin dance like the Tango, Rumba, Samba or Cha-Cha-Cha (named the sexiest Latin dances of all time) can rev up your libido while it gets the blood pumping and can be very erotic.  There’s also lots of solo dances you can perform for each other like a Burlesque, a lap dance or strip tease.  Even guys can do an erotic dance if they tune into their inner “Magic Mike”.

Gift your sweetheart with erotic dance classes for two and create more intimacy in your love life!

  1. Make a date night

Yes, I know you have probably heard this before and I have said this many times, if you want to have time for “sexy time” you sometimes have to schedule it.  That doesn’t mean it has to be boring.  In fact, scheduling a date ahead of time can create anticipation and start foreplay in the brain long before you even touch her.  It builds expectation and excitement, and even suspense as to what the date night will hold.  And, while it doesn’t always need to be about sex, it is nice if it leads to some type of intimacy, which will help continue to build a deeper connection together.

The big reason why you want to schedule a date night at least once a week is because your love/sex life is a priority, so by scheduling it, you make it important.  For a few hours every week you and your partner are top priority—no kids, no phones, no talking about financial worries—just the two of you remembering why you fell in love in the first place.  And, the more you have sex, the more you increase your libido, so scheduling weekly sex is great for your love life.

And, don’t forget… now you have a sexy bucket list you have to go through, so you need one night a week at least to get through that list!

  1. Be spontaneous

Ah, spontaneous sex!  You grab her spur of the moment and push her up against the wall, holding her arms above her head, your knee parting her thighs as you ravage her with your lips…  Ooops! Sorry, been reading too many erotic novels lately, but you get the idea.

Spontaneous sex (just the opposite of scheduling it) can be hot, hot, hot!  This is the time to get in a quickie by surprising her on your lunch break and getting it on; or sneaking into her morning shower to turn up the heat; or grabbing her from behind and having sex on the kitchen counter when she is in the middle of doing the dishes; or early Sunday morning while she is still sleeping.  There are lots of ways to have spontaneous sex.  Just try it!

  1. Try a new position

Trying a new position can be both challenging and fun.  There are literally hundreds of sexual positions, each one designed to facilitate a different type of sex, or to arouse certain erogenous zones.  There are countless positions based on missionary alone.

For example, regular missionary, while comfortable, isn’t very exciting and doesn’t hit any of her erogenous zones very well.  Whereas advanced missionary with her legs braced against your shoulders and her butt up on a pillow allows you to go deeper with your thrusts so you can hit her AFE zone (deep spot), bend back to massage her G-spot, or grind your pelvis against her to stimulate her clitoris and vulva.

Try different variations on missionary just to start with like the advanced missionary above, or the “Coital Alignment Technique”.  Once you have mastered them, move on to Doggie Style, Girl on Top and Reverse Cowgirl.  Check out my “Passionate Positions” Course to get more ideas on what positions you can try out next and how to do them correctly!

So there are my sexy tips for this week.  Stay tuned until next week, where I will continue to go down my list and give you LOTS more juicy hot tips on how to add more sexy time to your love life.

Until then, stay sexy!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

 

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  1. jaggie

    October 30, 2016 at 11:46 am

    Yes Gabbie, you are so right. I have a friend who wants to do mouthing at any cost before penis intercourse. She insists on it and said that she can’t get into mood, nor will be able to enjoy the sex act as she can not cum without me first doing oral on her. And trust me, she doesn’t want it for long time. As I just starting licking her juicy pussy, he just grabbed me from the neck after about half a minute, pulled me up towards her face, and started passionately kissing me there, then took her right hand to feel my hardness and then just guided it to insert, which of course happened almost automatically. We enjoyed again and again and now she is my pet friend and I too like it so much. Knowing each other’s fads, like or dislikes I think it most important and the Bucket system suggested by you comes in handy for this purpose. Thank you Gabbie so much for assisting me to enjoy better.

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