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I just love sharing with my readers all the different ways that sexuality can be enjoyed. Whereas some people assume that there are just a few different things to do in the bedroom and a few different ways to execute them, I love opening their eyes to a whole diverse world of sexuality and sexual acts. One of the best places to go to learn about these things is the famous Kama Sutra. Everyone has at least heard of this ancient Indian text, but most people don’t know much about it other than it provides a wide variety of sex positions for couples. But the Kama Sutra is so much more than that! The text is dedicated to help men have happy marriages and it actually isn’t all about sex.
While some might feel that certain aspects of the Kama Sutra are out of date, the information on sexuality and pleasure are right on point. The book has always focused on mutual pleasure, which was a rare thing for a long time. You know that on Gabrielle Moore, mutual pleasure is of the utmost importance to me and to you, my readers! So without further adieu, I’m going to introduce you to some basic, but important and very useful ideas from the Kama Sutra.
As we know, we are not all created equal when it comes to size. While most of the focus on this talks about whether men’s penis size is really important and how important to women, we forget that women’s size matters too. What the heck am I talking about? Women’s genitals, just like men, come in different shapes and sizes as well. I’m not just referring to the outside vulva area either. The vaginal canal can be narrow, wider, deep, or shallow. So, just like a man’s penis size can affect his partner’s pleasure, the shape and size of the vagina can as well. Lucky for us the Kama Sutra has provided an ancient solution that is more valid than anything man has come up with since: sex positions to accommodate different bodies.
1. When a man finds that he is too big for his partner and sex can be uncomfortable for her at times because of his large size or her small vagina, she would be referred to as a Mrigi (deer). The Kama Sutra suggests several positions for the woman in order to widen her vagina and make sex better for both partners.
Widely opened position – The woman lies on her back and the man kneels in front of her. She should lift her butt and arch her back as he thrusts. He will provide added support by holding her around the waist and lower back. Pillows can be used to prop up the butt, but the woman shouldn’t forget to arch her back. This also provides great G spot stimulation.
The yawning position – With the woman on her back and the man on top, she should raise her thighs up and keep them widely spread so he can fully enter her.
The position of the wife of Indra – The woman should lie back with her legs bent and pulled up to her chest. The man will kneel in front and enter her. She can leave her legs pressed to her chest or press them against his chest. She can sling them over his shoulders. Or finally, she can press her feet against his chest. All of these variations allow for maximum entry.
2. When a man and woman aren’t compatible because either his penis is too small or her vagina is too big, she would be referred to as a Hastini (elephant). This couple would need sexual position in which the vagina is more contracted to maximize pleasure for both of them.
The clasping position – In this position the woman lies flat on her back with her legs outstretched and the man lies on top of her in the same position. In order to enter the woman they might need to alter the position and then go back to it once he is inside. Typically this is done with the man on top, but you can also try it with the woman on top. She should first straddle her partner then lie down on top with her legs out straight. This position is especially nice because of the full body contact.
The pressing position – This is the same as the clasping position, but the woman should begin to squeeze her thighs tight as they have sex. This brings the clasping position to the next level of pleasure.
If you’re someone who has worried about your size in the past, try out the corresponding sex position to really intensify you and your lover’s pleasure. Thanks, Kama Sutra!