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What She’s Thinking When You’re Down There

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What She’s Thinking When You’re Down There

Oral sex is an amazing thing. It feels wonderful and for women, it’s an incredibly intimate act. Some women will feel seriously vulnerable with you down between her legs. Others might feel seriously powerful. Have you ever wondered what she might be thinking and feeling about your work down there? If you’re at all doubtful about your skills, or even if you just want to brush up and improve your method, you need to check out my list of oral sex tips. Here we go…

It’s intimate, VERY INTIMATE – For women, having a man’s face right up in her vulva is a very intimate experience. Women will likely feel very differently than men about it. She might love it, but most women will have a least a little bit of insecurity or reservations about you being that close. She might be self conscious of her odor or the way her vulva looks. Just remember to never make anything but positive comments about her nether regions and you’ll be good to go. You don’t want her worrying what you think when you’re down there, you just want her to enjoy the ride. Let her know how much you love going down on her by telling her how much it turns you on and how much you like it.

Don’t suck hard – When a woman is going down on you, you might like her to suck with gusto, but the clitoris is much more sensitive and sucking on it vigorously is probably going to feel pretty uncomfortable and possibly even hurt. Sucking ever so lightly will provide an incredibly delicious sensation that will drive her wild.

Just because she doesn’t ask for it, doesn’t mean she doesn’t want it – Many women feel embarrassed asking for oral sex or admitted just how much they love it. They might not want to say they would love you to do it more, but chances are, they do! Make it a regular thing and you will have one happy woman on your hands!

Let her finish – Oral can be a great warm up before vaginal intercourse, but a lot of women don’t orgasm from vaginal sex alone. If you use oral only as a warm up then she might be missing out on her big O. Let her finish before moving on to sex. Or you can also finish her off with oral sex after vaginal sex.

Don’t worry too much about your fingers – A lot of guys try to finger a woman fast and hard while they’re going down on her. A finger inside her can feel amazing, but you don’t need to put all your focus on your fingering and you don’t need to go fast and hard. Just the slightest in and out movement will provide great stimulation.

Use it frequently – Although it’s amazing to finish oral sex when you start it, you can also use it during sex when you’re changing positions or need to take a break (Think: if you’re on the verge of cumming and you don’t want to).

Take your time – Another thing women worry about is taking too long. Ironically, her worrying about taking too long will usually make things take even longer! She’ll be so worried that you’re getting bored, your mouth is sore, your back hurts, or you’re just over it that she won’t even be able to fully enjoy it. Make sure you never rush her and you just enjoy it no matter how long it takes. Never ask, “are you almost done?” as that sends a clear message that you’re ready for her to be done. Instead you can reassure her by saying things like, “God, I love this, I could do it all night,” even if you really couldn’t!

Magic fingers – If your mouth is getting tired and you need a little break, use the pad of your thumb to gently massage her clitoris. The change in sensation will usually escalate things for her if you do it the right way and it gives you a chance to rest your tongue for a minute. However, she probably prefers your hot, wet tongue to the pad of your thumb so as soon as you’re ready, dive back in there.

These are all the things she wants you to know about oral sex, but she may not have the nerve to tell you. Remember these tidbits and memorize these tips and your lady will be very satisfied.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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  1. Richard

    July 15, 2015 at 12:04 am

    Hi Gabrielle, there is one thing I thoroughly enjoy , and that is going down on a woman. I love the aroma , taste and enjoy giving a woman immense pleasure by using tongue , fingers , alternating between warm / hot breath followed by cold focused breath on the clit and surrounding areas. Using one palm to massage the whole area outside from bottom to top in upward motion slowly but yet teasingly firmly. While flicking my tongue on her clit ever so gently . I love to tease and reward , alternating between both . I love to do this all night before , during and after intercourse. Ready for.The next round of entertainment. To my woman immense , unsurpassed pleasure is my main aim . My own release can wait until she is totally satisfied , then it’s my turn to enjoy her reciprocal actions . I’ve been with the same woman.for 21 yrs now . Sex is more and more rewarding for both of us . And yes I mix it up everytime so the ” routine ” doesn’t become stale.and boring. I love all your material and have put all of it into practice . Some.techniques I have learnt and use I’ve done for.over 30 years and not many men know about. These were taught to me by a very voracious woman when I was in my late teens on how to give women pleasure . Your material is awesome for.refreshing my memories and I do hope many men DO use their ” balls” and man up and be prepared to learn. It does work . Giving a woman immense sexual pleasure and intimacy WILL have her coming back for more. That I’ve proven many times. Cheers from Rick in western australia.

  2. Kirk

    October 13, 2015 at 11:27 pm

    I so agree I love going down on a lady, slowly bringing her to a broil. And when she does give me all of her love juices it really turns me on.

  3. dennis

    March 14, 2016 at 5:43 pm

    my wife has a hard time cumming with sexual intercourse so usually i have to revert to oral. i can`t get enough of how good it feels for both of us.when she cums it usually last for over 2 minutes so you know her telling me it is now my turn,i can hardly contain myself.gabrielle you are one cool lady to give us guys who love oral all of your tips above.i will without a doubt use some of them when we have sex again.i do not remember how i found you on the internet but i am sure glad that i did.

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