“Real sex is as much about reciprocity as it is exploration and if you need a reason to resent a man later on, just consider the guy who doesn’t believe in cunnilingus…” ? Roberto Hogue
Okay, men, what is better than oral sex? Seriously, can you think of a single thing? Most guys love getting a great blow job, and it’s not any different for women. Oral sex is the sexual act where one person can just lay back, relax and completely receive from their partner. As the giver, performing oral sex can be the ultimate gift. The only problem with oral sex? All that giving can be tiring. Your mouth gets tired, your arms get tired from propping yourself up, and it can turn a sexy gift into “can we just get on with it, please??” Here are 5 amazing new oral sex positions to change things up and avoid stiff necks and backs!
1. Over the edge – In this hot position the woman lies down on her back on the bed and scoots her butt to the edge so that her legs are hanging off the end. You sit or kneel on the floor in front of her. There are several benefits to this position. 1) You don’t have to prop yourself up with your arms so they are free to finger her or touch her anywhere you want. 2) It’s also less tiring because you can sit and have full access without bending over. 3) If her butt slightly hangs off the bed you can also have access to her butt for some anal play. *Tip* Place a pillow under yourself to make it more comfortable, especially if you’re kneeling.
2. Oral Doggy Style – As you would expect, this one has the woman in the doggy style position and you’re behind her going down. Men love this one because it gives a great, sexy view of their partner and they have full access to her vulva, clitoris, vagina, butt and anus. It’s all right there on display for you. *Tip* Instead of having her on all fours , try having her bend down to rest her elbows and forearms on the bed. This will be much more comfortable for her and it will give you a better angle to reach her clitoris. This position also doesn’t have to be just done on the bed. She can bend over the arm of the couch, the kitchen table or any other spot to change up the location and make things a little more exciting!
3. The Sidecar Oral – In this position she lies down on her side, bends her top leg at the knee and places her foot flat on the bed. You lie down on your side with your head right at her crotch. This is very comfortable for both partners. You won’t get tired out propping yourself up and you won’t wake up with a terribly stiff neck. Make sure she really opens up that leg so you can get right in there. Hook your top arm around her leg to grab her ass. You can also use that free arm to stimulate her breasts, finger her or anything else you’d like to do.
4. Puzzle piece 69 – The 69 position is another popular favorite because it means you get to enjoy a little of your own oral sex while also going down on your partner. This particular version of the 69 is the best and most comfortable way to do it. You fit together like perfect puzzle pieces. First the man lies down on the couch upside down, meaning that his legs are draped over the back of the couch and his back and head are resting on the seat. Your butt should be scooted to the back of the couch just like you are sitting upside down on the couch. Then your partner will straddle your face and bend over to go down on you. This position is more relaxing and much easier to stay in place than doing it in bed.
5. Sit on my face – This is another favorite among men. In this one you’re lying down on the bed and she’s kneeling over you, straddling your face. She lowers down onto your mouth and you get to work. This is super comfortable for the man since you are the one who gets to lie back, but it’s also highly erotic. One thing to keep in mind with this position is that it might not be comfortable for very long for her. If she seems to be getting weak in the knees (literally) then it might be time to change to one of these other positions.
Have fun, boys! Remember, you will have an extremely thankful partner if you try out one of these steaming hot oral positions tonight!
Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
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