„I like to see oral sex and manual sex and intercourse as foreplay for my vibrator sex”- Betty Dodson
There’s a persistent myth floating around that women don’t really dig oral play, that all they really crave is intercourse. Not true. Not one bit true. The mix-up lies in the fact that women simply desire a different type of oral sex than men do- moves that take into account the way girls’ erogenous zones work and the specific touches they desire.
Bellow, I detail six woman-pleasing moves that will slowly bring her lust to a boil.
1) Really see her naked
Even if she’s stripped down with you before, there’s a good chance you never feasted your eyes on her completely bare body for more than a few seconds. Maybe it’s because she undresses quickly in a passion frenzy or your bodies are too close for you to really take her in. But it’s a surefire arousal trigger for a woman.
When a woman sees desire in her lover’s eyes, her oxytocin levels rise, spiking her sex drive. Plus, she’ll feel sex-kittenish knowing you’re so mesmerized by how she looks naked. Therefore, the longer you let your eyes linger, the more aroused she’ll be.
While you’re on the bed, peel off her clothes slowly. Keep the lights on, so that you take in every inch of her body and she can see you doing it. Swivel her naked body around, so that you can view it from different angles, then lean in for a few close-ups.
2) Tell her how excited she gets you
Before any touching has taken place, lie close to your partner and whisper how hot she’s made you. Most women aren’t used to softer, sensual talk from their partners, so this will take her by surprise and create the much needed anticipation. Also, don’t be afraid to be explicit- for example, tell her how hard you are down bellow. Once she’s under your spell, graze your fingers precariously close to her private parts. By physically hinting at the action to come, her desire will be on fire.
3) Pleasure two body parts at the same time
After planting your lips lightly against hers, coax her tongue gently into yours. Gradually make your kiss more urgent by licking and then sucking the tip of her tongue. This suggests a primal kind of passion women love just as much as men.
While you’re thrilling her with your mouth, slowly move one hand down to her groin and cover her hot bits with your palm. As she gets more moist, build up to coarser, faster, tighter finger play. The duet of sensations above and bellow the belt will be ultra-pleasurable.
4) Lick her cut lines
Lots of women love it when a man teases the sensitive areas we call cut lines- the creases that separate a girl’s thighs from her torso. But most men don’t realize what intense erogenous zones they are. The ultimate take-her-prisoner move: while she’s on her back, scoot down so you can nibble and lick along one line, then the other. Soft touches like these warm up the skin and awaken the nerves, so you get her ready for more direct stimulation later. Boost her bliss even further by gliding your tongue along each crease while her knees are bent and her legs are spread slightly. This position will make her feel more vulnerable, magnifying every sensation your mouth makes.
5) A just-the-tip tease
Before she soaks up the entire bedding, go ahead and start licking her now more-than-eager vagina (its intense throbbing will demonstrate the sky high state of arousal you have brought her into). Form an upside-down V with your index and middle fingers and place it over her vaginal lips, as if framing them, and start licking inside. You can widen and constrict your fingers depending on exactly where you want her to feel your mouth. Plus, the feel of your hand on her labia increases her pleasure.
6) 69… but sideways
Women don’t want oral sex to be all about them (we’re generous like that!), so if you hint at trying 69, she’ll be more than happy to follow your lead. You already know the standard 69- she lying on top of you while pleasing each other orally- is smoking hot. What you may not be aware of is that it can be difficult for a woman to position herself at the angle that feels awesome for you but doesn’t result in muscle strains for her.
So try this 69 spin: you and your partner lie on your sides, your face by her pelvis and vice versa, each of you bending one knee so you form a triangle-like frame around your private parts. This gives you better access to her V yone, so you can pleasure her for a longer period of time as well as see her facial expressions and watch how blissed out she is.
Have a sexy week,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. Giving her an oral orgasm will help relax her body and actually prime her for another orgasm later in your sack session. For more tips and tricks on how to rock your partner’s world with oral, check out my program on the matter, Oral Rapture.
