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8 Oral Sex Tips You Need to Know

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8 Oral Sex Tips You Need to Know

The truth is, some guys are completely clueless as to what to do when they finally get to bury their head between their partner’s legs. You might doubt your skills so much that you avoid going there at all, and that is a big mistake. Most women, just like most men, love oral sex. So instead of avoiding it because you’re not sure if you’re good at it, it’s time to learn how to be a master with the following need to know tips!

1. Oral sex isn’t foreplay, so don’t go straight in – For us oral sex can, and sometimes should, be the main event. That means that heading straight for her clitoris isn’t the way to go. Just like with intercourse, you need to get her warmed up. Start with her favorite kind of foreplay. Kiss her deeply and start making your way down, kissing and licking her on the way. Don’t rush it!

2. Tease and tantalize – Tease as you’re making your way to her clitoris and vulva. Her clit will be throbbing with anticipation if you tease her enough. So start kissing and sucking on her thighs, make your way closer ever so slowly, but just as she thinks that you’re going to finally give it to her, slowly move away again. This will intensify the sensations once you finally touch her clit.

3. Continue to zone in – As you probably already know, the clitoris is super sensitive, so you want to go as gently and slowly as possible. Believe me, you would much rather have her begging you for more than begging you to stop. When you finally make it to her genital area, continue to slowly make your way toward her clitoris by stimulating the areas around the clit. It’s actually much bigger than you think it is and it has sensitive parts just under the surface of the skin. So, as you’re stimulating the sensitive areas around the clit, you’re also providing her with amazing stimulation.

4. Only positive comments – A lot of women can feel pretty self conscious about having someone’s face so close to her most intimate area. She might be worried about a lot of things like how she looks down there, how she smells or even how long she takes to have an orgasm. Don’t make any kind of negative comments or impatient sighs. If she’s self conscious or uncomfortable then she won’t be able to relax and enjoy herself. And that means she probably won’t cum either. So, instead of staying quiet, you could give her self esteem a little boost and set her mind at ease by telling her how sexy she is. Try saying something like, “God, I love being between your legs,” “It’s such a huge turn on for me to do this,” or “You’re so beautiful.”

5. Keep things interesting – Even if you notice she likes a particular tongue movement, don’t just do that same motion over and over again. Doing the same repetitive thing can feeling numbing down there after a while, and in some cases it can even hurt. You want to try different sensations. Play around with the movement and shape of your tongue.

6. Use your hands – Your hands can be used in a variety of different ways during oral sex. You can reach up and play with her breasts and nipples. You can use your hands to spread open her vulvar lips, for extra stimulation, or for fingering. You can bring in some ass play by kneading her butt cheeks or fingering her down there. Get creative, but don’t let them just sit idly at your side.

7. Be patient – It takes women longer to orgasm than men (in general), so be patient and never show it if you’re feeling tired. Even if she came in 5 minutes last time you went down on her, other times it might take her a lot longer. It doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. There could be a lot of different reasons why it sometimes will take her longer to orgasm. When in doubt, you can ask her to show you what she wants you to do.

8. Try different positions – The most important thing is that the woman is comfortable. If she’s not, she isn’t going to be able to orgasm. Change it up every once in awhile, but not when you’re already giving her oral sex. Start with one position and stick with it, in order to not break the flow. But next time you can try out a new position.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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  1. Jim

    December 14, 2015 at 3:00 pm

    I took your advice to work with me and my wife had such a gusher of an org, that she has never had before in her life. Wow! Thank you.

  2. Hector

    December 28, 2015 at 10:30 pm

    Great tips. Im pretty good at oral but will try a thing or 2

  3. Bill Carlson

    December 28, 2015 at 11:06 pm

    Oral is by far for me the best way to go. Most of the time when my wife and I are having sex, I won’t even penetrate her, but give her oral. She absolutely loves this, and I always make sure I am doing what she likes for me to do, and asking her questions about what she wants has been very helpful. I love it the most when she gushes liquid on to my face, so I can lap it all up. I have even started to get her to kiss me with my face having the taste and smell of her liquid on me. Absolutely just a beautiful feeling when this happens. I get her to orgasm every time I do oral with her. Just wonderful.

  4. James Maher

    December 29, 2015 at 1:01 am

    Simple effective advice that needs to be simply
    put into practice

  5. dennis

    December 29, 2015 at 5:58 am

    i love going down on my better half.if she knows that i adore her clit. then when she returns the favor, i am going to be in for the best time of my life.in my book gabrielle you are one pretty cool person to give us guys 8 quality tips on how to please the women in our life.why i think you are awesome is that i got these tips and you did not charge me. until i got to your website i was just a average guy in the bedroom. now your e-mails are the first i look for every morning.thank you for your advice.sex has never been so good.

  6. Kzkwuid

    March 19, 2016 at 9:08 pm

    Hey, gabby, thanx for the tips. Just saw them. Last night had a beauty squirt during oral which was great. Next time ill use your tips to hipefully make it even better. Quik question though, any advice on past articles youve written that i missed and should check out? Please email me any info that may be helpful to my wife. Making her happy is important to me cuz a mothers mood effects her kids and my priority in life is a safe happy family. Thanx!

  7. Hassan

    August 3, 2016 at 1:22 am

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