If you haven’t already learned that amazing oral sex is fundamental to pleasing your woman, I’m here to tell you: IT IS. As we have mentioned in several of our other articles, many women can’t orgasm from vaginal sex alone, so it’s up to you to find other ways to please her. The percentage of women who orgasm from oral sex is significantly higher than that of vaginal sex, so if you’re thinking of polishing up on your oral sex skills, you’re on the right track. Only 30% of women say they can cum from vaginal sex alone, while 80% say they can cum from oral, and 70% of men and women prefer oral sex to intercourse.
Oral sex is usually done in the traditional way. The woman lies on her back, spreads her legs open and her man gets in between and goes to town. But guess what? Just like there are other positions to stimulate better sex, there are other oral sex positions that will have her clutching the sheets and moaning for more, more, MORE.
- On the edge… With this position the woman lies on the bed with her butt just at the edge and her legs hanging down. You will get down on your knees in front of her on the floor. Remember to put a pillow or some kind of cushioning under your knees. This gives you the perfect angle and view of her vulva without having to hunch over her in bed and strain your back. Instead of having to use your arms and hands to prop yourself up like in the tradition position, they will be totally free to stroke her thighs, stimulate her nipples, and finger her. This position doesn’t have to just be used in bed either, it’s the perfect position to try out when you’re trying to get out of the rut of bedroom sex. Prop her up on your office desk, your kitchen counter, the dining room table, a lawn chair out in your backyard… get creative!
- A new take on doggystyle – This is just how you might have imagined it. She gets on all fours on the bed and you give her oral sex from behind. A lot of men love this position because it gives them that irresistible view of their woman from behind and on all fours. One downside is that your partner might get tired holding herself up on all fours while you’re going to town. If that’s the case prop up a few pillows and have her lean on top of them so that her butt sticks up high in the air. This has two benefits. First, as we mentioned, it might be more comfortable for her. And second, leaning down in this way gives you better access to her clitoris. This position also has the benefit of giving you full access to her butt and if you’re interested in trying out anallingus, this is a great position for you.
- Sit on my face – We’ve all heard the saying before, but it’s actually a very erotic and sexy position as well. You lie down on the bed and she straddles your head and lowers herself down so that her vulva is right in your face. This allows her maximum control over the intensity of your tongue and you get to lie back and enjoy the view! Make sure she has something comfortable under her knees (like a pillow) so she can relax and let go.
- Assisted 69 – You have probably tried the 69 position before. You may have loved it in theory, but it’s sometimes hard to manage comfortably. The assisted 69, on the other hand, is comfortable and easy and best of all, HOT! You should lie on your back on the couch with your butt against the end of the couch and your legs draped over the arm of the couch. She will straddle your head and position herself accordingly to give you head at the same time. The couch will sustain you and keep you both in position.
- The lazy giver – Don’t worry, you’re not actually going to be lazy with this one, but you will be more comfortable and therefore probably do a much better job! Have her lie on her side with her top leg bent to give you access to her vulva. You will also lie down on your side right in front of her. Use a pillow to prop up your head if you don’t quite reach. This will keep your neck and back from killing you after a while of pleasuring her.
Good luck trying out these sexy oral positions, men! I’d love to hear what your partners had to say about them in the comments section below.
Have a sexy week,
Gabrielle Moore
PS. Don’t forget that communication is key to pleasure. Ask her if a new position is working for her or how you can modify it to maximize her enjoyment! To become the absolute King, check-out my program on the matter – Oral Rapture!
