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Getting Your Mojo Back – How to Reignite the Sexual Flame

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Getting Your Mojo Back – How to Reignite the Sexual Flame

One of the things that drives me crazy is that there are so many great couples out there who really love each other, but they have horrible sex lives. Their sex lives may have been good at one point, they may have even been amazing, but they aren’t anymore. As we all know, this can pose a real threat to the happiness and stability of your relationship. Most men want to fix this issue and have more sex, but they don’t know how. This is where things get tricky. Women often have a lower sex drive than their male partners when they are in a long term relationship. This difference can leave both people feeling frustrated and hurt at times.

Most men out there want to know how to increase their partner’s desire. If you fall into this category, you should know first that it doesn’t only depend on you, but there are a lot of things you can do to help the situation. Here’s how to do it…

1. Show Your Appreciation – A woman’s sex drive is completely entwined with her feelings and emotions. If she doesn’t feel connected to you emotionally, you’re going to have a lot harder time getting her turned on. One way to connect with your partner is to make sure she feels appreciated by you. Feeling unappreciated is a big problem in long term relationships. Both people are usually guilty of taking the other person for granted in a lot of ways, but this is an especially common complaint among women. They do a lot for their men and when they don’t feel appreciated, a distance grows for them and they feel less loving and attraction. Luckily, there is something you can do about it starting right now. Start showing your appreciation for her right this very minute. Even if you think she already knows that you appreciate her, you need to tell her. Tell her everyday, even several times a day, in specific ways and general ways. Say something like, “I’m such a lucky guy to be with a woman like you,” or “Thank you so much for _____,” or “I really appreciate _______.” Start doing this every day and you will notice that your partner will be warming up to you in no time.

2. Refocus Your Attention – The longer we are in a relationship, the less we pay attention to our partners. This needs to change if you want to reignite the sexual flame. Start by committing to turning off technology for a few hours every night. Some couples like turning their phones, computers and TV off around the hours before, during and just after dinner. Others like to do so at the end of the night or in the morning. Find a time that works best for both of you. Have meals together and actually talk! You might find this hard at first if you’re really out of practice, but believe me, it will get easier. You might wonder, how will this help me have sex more? Well, everything in a relationship is interconnected. One thing affects another. You and your partner will start to enjoy each other again and reconnect on every level, even a physical one!

3. Don’t be Selfish – Even though you want to be having more sex, you also need to understand if she isn’t in the mood. If you pressure her or complain about your sex life, it will only turn her off and possibly piss her off. Try doing other physicals things that she likes, like holding hands, being affectionate, giving hugs, kissing, giving her a non sexual massage. Connecting through non sexual touch with your partner will also magically reignite her desire for sexual touch. A lot of couples start to only touch each other when it comes to sex and therefore they lose out on a lot of the intimacy in their relationship. Paying attention to being affectionate can help with that.

4. Talk – Let her know that you want to improve the intimate part of your relationship and talk to her about how she would like to do it. Make sure you talk about it at a time when neither of you are upset or angry. It can be hard to talk about sex, so be careful to choose the right time.

One last thing, you have already done more than most men by just thinking about what your partner wants and wanting to better meet her needs. Too many men just complain selfishly and don’t even think about what they can do to make a change. Good for you and have fun!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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7 Comments

  1. Glenn

    July 20, 2016 at 3:30 pm

    GREAT INFO!!!!!!!!!
    THANKS VERY MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    I NEED ALL THE ADVICE I CAN GET!!!!!!!!!

  2. Carl

    August 14, 2016 at 11:05 pm

    All these articles seemed to be about women not wanting sex, but what when it’s the other way round. My partner must be feeling pretty desperate because it’s me that never wants sex and I can go months at a time without, this is not fair on her and I fear our relationship could get damaged beyond repair !!

  3. Allen

    August 15, 2016 at 12:50 am

    Gabrielle,
    Your info is always a great read. I just wish I was able to use it. My wife suffered a stroke and a hysterectomy and 7 blood transfusion, in 2007. Since then we have had sex only 3 times. Oral sex is out of the question because she feels dirty down in her private area, and I have gained weight around my stomach and my penis is almost gone so she isn’t interested. We are both in our late 50’s and have been married for 10 years.

  4. pravin

    August 15, 2016 at 9:22 am

    i have to increase my sex intercourse timing pl.guide

  5. Sambo

    August 15, 2016 at 2:56 pm

    You are right on!!!

    The more I take the time to show my wife I appreciate her, the more I get laid. If you think about it, it’s pretty simple…..here’s a few of the things I find that work pretty well,
    *When she calls answer the phone AND act excited that she just called (This is huge)
    *Send her a text or two through out the day. Tell her how much you love her and miss her. Let her now how happy you are of all she does.
    *Tell her the dinner she just made was the best one yet!!! (Even if it tastes like shit)
    *When you go on a date, take the time to look nice. (Don’t just through on a “clean shirt”. Remember, she’s been waiting the whole day for this.)
    **(THE MOST IMPORTANT) On the date, tell her she looks amazing. The more compliments the better, tell her you love her and how luck you are to have a girl like her. Let her know her body is amazing, even after 3 kids…at 40, she looks 10x better than all the 20yr old skinny, big tit bitches walking around at the beach…..;)
    I mean this is basic shit guys, if your not doing this stuff and you think your relationship sucks, give it a try. My wife and I have been married for 20yrs with 3 little kids.
    A few yrs ago I felt unappreciated, I’d bust my ass everyday at work and I felt I deserved better. Then I read an article and it suggested a few simple, stupid things like I just mentioned. So….I gave it a gone. At first, my wife was on the defence. She would just look at me when I told her she looked amazing on a date. Little by little I broke down the wall, over a period of a few months I noticed, she would take the time to look super sexy before a date, she reacted to my compliments with a little giggle and say “really”, “who are you” and “what do you want”
    The big kicker was when other people started to notice and mention “you two are so in love” and “you guys are so cute together”
    Anyway…this is my story…I realized a relationship takes work, you have to be unselfish and sometimes bit your tongue. The more effort you put into it the better it’ll treat you.
    -Good Luck
    Sambo (Fallbrook, CA)

  6. Sean

    August 15, 2016 at 4:50 pm

    Very true point on having a great relationship. We’ve been married 22 years and just got back from awesome vacation of hot sex. I also believe a key point to a successful relationship is dating, just like we were 20 years old.

  7. Winzey

    August 16, 2016 at 11:35 am

    Thank u very much i really appreciate ur advice!!!

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