The art of cunnilingus is something to be perfected. Being able to make your beloved twitch with the flick of your tongue will empower you, and bring her to her knees. With her on her knees, she will find something of yours down there to repay the favour.
The expression no two snowflakes are alike is apropos when referring to your ladies precious parts. All women react differently, and more important than the technique, is that there is always room for more pleasure. Just because your ex-girlfriend liked you to pay close attention to her doorbell, doesn’t mean your new partner does. Understanding how to please a woman isn’t done once, but is a dynamic process with each new bed mate.
If there was only time for one last orgasm, your partner would surely want it to be the most euphoric experience of her life. This article will help you get there with her. No matter how long you’ve been a couple, truly pleasuring your partner’s parts is essential to a good bedroom relationship. When you decide to take the plunge and delve into her soft, velvety desires, think of these four tips to ensure an earth shattering experience. First, set the mood; next make love all day long; third, ask her questions; and last, finish what you start. Follow these simple and erotic ideas, and you are sure to make her weak in the knees.
Setting the mood is more than just lighting candles and turning down the lights. “Distractions are one of the major things that prevent couples from really connecting in bed” said Nancy, a councillor in Vancouver. Email, TV, kids, bills, and work stresses all wreak havoc on our dear friend Libido and make it hard for it to come out and play. After having been in a relationship for some time, it’s common to plan ‘sexy time’. Most people advise against this, but not me. I understand the value in a quick romp, but to become better at pleasuring her, it takes time, effort and focus. When time is put aside, she can clear her mind of any interfering thoughts and focus on your head between her legs.
Making love doesn’t just happen in the bedroom (or the laundry room, or garage…) Making love to a woman happens all day long; from the way you kiss her when she leaves in the morning, to the text message you send her mid day, to the way you snuggle on the couch at night. “Women crave physical attention all the time, especially outside the bedroom. It’s a way to show you love and care for them” shares Cindy, a dating expert in Whistler. It’s a lot easier to make your woman feel sexy when she feels loved by you. Make a woman feel sexy and you’ll unlock her wild side; she’ll lose her inhibitions, and get down and dirty. When you warm her up, her tender juices will flow with ease.
A man who has pleasured a woman has thought proudly to himself, ‘yep, I know how to give good oral sex’. As this may be true for the one you popped, it’s not necessarily so for all women. “It’s easier for men to tell women what they want, and more acceptable for a guy to ask for a blow job. For women however, we struggle to share what we like; instead we wriggle our hips around when he’s going down on us trying to make it feel right when he thinks he’s figured us out” said Tiara, an Escort in Whistler. Some women are shy, and others don’t know what they like. Take charge as chief pleasure giver and ask specific questions on how things feel. If she’s too shy to answer, tell her to moan or move her hips when something feels good. You can take those clues and make her cum to her senses.
The last yet important clue to improve your thunder down under is to finish what you start. Making a woman orgasm from oral sex can be tricky, and sometimes time consuming. You need to be patient and loving throughout the process. “When I first started dating my husband, he used to get frustrated and complain his jaw hurt because I was taking so long. This made me feel bad so I started avoiding being pleasured ‘down there’”. Eventually we saw a sex therapist (for other reasons as well) who helped us understand that being a good lover requires patience and practice” said Laura, a school teacher from Seattle. She may not peak with pleasure on your first try, but patient practice makes perfect, and in time, she will thank you for it.
Having a great oral sex with your partner makes the relationship stronger, and expands the possibilities of gratification. By setting the mood, you will have your lover primed and ready for a trip to the big O. By making her feel sexy all day, she’ll be ready to dive in and get wet the moment she gets home. Communicating with her and asking specific questions will get you the answers you need to make her climax to the highest peaks. And finally, by finishing what you have started, you will both have a lot more pleasure in understanding how to set your lovers loins afire.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
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