“The smell of her hair, the taste of her mouth, the feeling of her skin seemed to have got inside him or into the air all around him. She had become a physical necessity”- George Orwell, 1984
The connections between our sense of smell and sexuality, emotions and memory, are profound and primary. For years experts have been informing us that the link between sex and certain flavors is as simple and logical as the happiness it brings.
There are scents that calm you down or make you feel confident, just as there are scents that naturally contribute to sharpen your senses and feeling when you’re in bed with a woman.
Massage oils or those used in aromatherapy are known for their properties of balancing both sex and thyroid hormones. These flavors work not only the body, but also the mind, relaxing you and helping you be more open to sex.
The essential oils that are perfect for romance and sexuality contain one of the following flavors: rose, jasmine, ylang ylang, patchouli, resin, pine, nutmeg. If you want to give your girlfriend a sexy massage, than choose a massage oil that contains, besides one of the flavors enumerated before, at least one of the following spices: cinnamon, ginger, or black pepper.
However, you should not heavy up the atmosphere between you two with too many scents, oils and lotions, because there is a fine line between a sexy smell and a heavy smell, which ruins the mood.
There are numerous studies conducted to support aromatherapy theories, and the majority of them have found that women are attracted to the scent of men with a similar but not identical genetic code, while men prefer the natural scent of a woman’s body during the days of the month when she is most fertile.
Scientists have tested 30 flavors and their impact on women. The results:
– 40% were aroused by the strong aroma of musk, chocolate liquor, red wine and body oil
– 31% were attracted to the flavor of pumpkin and lavender
– 30% were in the mood for sex after smelling liquorice
– Women were not attracted by the scents of shaving lotion (surprisingly!), steak and cherries.
Top 5 flavors that excite women:
1) Musk– the scent that is the most similar to that of male pheromones. So, it wouldn’t be bad if the next perfume you buy for yourself is with musk. If however you don’t like the smell of it on yourself, buy incense, candles of massage oil with musk.
2) Patchouli– the aroma of this flower is incredible! Not just for the smell but because it really excites women. Specialists believe that the scent of patchouli awakens and provokes sexual energy.
3) Mint– it energizes women and motivates positive thinking. Perfect for sex! It might even encourage her to try something new in the bedroom.
4) Ylang ylang– have you ever smelled it? If you close your eyes and smell it, you can instantly imagine yourself with your partner, about to initiate a steamy sex night. If you’re in the mood for burning passion, turn to room spray, flavored oil or incense.
5) Jasmine– with a fine but powerful scent, it rapidly manages to invite all your senses to new sexual experiences.
If you want to impress your girlfriend tonight with a romantic twist to oral sex, make sure you set the mood properly. First, see if the room is well ventilated, and maintain a nice, soft temperature, around 25 degrees Celsius. Then choose the perfumed items you want to use: bath salts, shower gel, massage oil, body lotion, candle, incense, etc.
Red candles are really aphrodisiac, the yellow or orange ones energize, and the blue and green ones relax you. Chose her favorite scent sticks and if the deed is going to the done in the bathroom, choose the right bath oil, then fill the tub with warm water.
After a creamy scented relaxed shower, take her to the bedroom, lose the bath towel and start massaging her all over her body. The candle light, the steamy aromas that incite all her senses, everything is set up for an unforgettable night of passion and love. Kiss her slowly, don’t rush anything and let her enjoy all the preparations you made for her. If that’s not a sign of love, I honestly don’t know what is.
Have a sexy week,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. Check her perfume drawer and see what scents are predominant; you’ll thus know exactly what she likes and what you need to buy.
For more naughty secrets and tips and tricks on how to make cunnilingus sessions as hot as possible, check out my program on the subject – Oral Rapture.
