Assume the Position: Fantastic Fingering Forms

Often the hands will solve a mystery that the intellect has struggled with in vain.
–  Carl G. JungIt’s true what Jung says about the hands. The power in our palms to sense just what our partner wants and needs can be overwhelming if it is new to you, and no one is expecting you to turn into Casanova over night. If you have put a lot of energy into learning these new fingering techniques, it may be difficult for you to even imagine any interesting positions where you might want to try them out. Well worry not love! Here are five of the most popular basic sex positions and some tips to modify them for manual stimulation.The PositionsThe Missionary
Coming at your woman from the top while she lies on her back with her legs spread is perhaps the very best position for fingering fun. Not only does it give you easy access to all her most sensitive spots when you are focused on your fingers. This is generally the most comfortable position for a woman who is just getting used to the idea of getting up close and personal with her own orgasm, especially for G-Spot play, so let her lay back and enjoy the ride!

Animal Style
There are plenty of advantages to doggie-style sex, whether you are kneeling or standing behind her. Because she is totally propping herself up, and you are supported completely by your legs, your hands are left totally free for play. You can reach forward to play with her breasts or her clit, or place one hand on the base of her spine and use a well-lubricated thumb to stimulate her anally!

You also have a great angle in this position for a sexy surprise! During intercourse, place one hand under your penis, palm facing down toward the bed so that your fingers can curl toward her G-Spot. Gently angle your hips to one side and slide one or two fingers into her vagina alongside your penis. If you keep your hand putting pressure on the front wall of the vagina while you penetrate her, this is a great position for making her ejaculate.

The Cowgirl
When she is on top, not only are your hands completely free, but she has more control over the depth and speed of your stimulation. She can face toward or away from you – either way you can reach her clit, her nipples and her ass, especially if you prop yourself up on pillows or sit on the couch where you can reach around. If her clit is too sensitive to touch directly, simply pull her outer lips apart as you thrust, exposing her clit to the rhythmic pressure of your movements.

Loving Spoonfuls
Spooning is perhaps the most intimate way to finger a woman. Holding her close from behind and penetrating her (vaginally or anally) during intercourse, you can reach around quite easily and masturbate her. This is a great position to have her “show you the ropes” of her private parts. Have her masturbate while you make love, placing your hand over top of hers so you can feel how she touches herself, then switch so that you are touching her clit and her hand is on top, guiding your movements. With her legs closed so tight around you, this is a great position to learn to climax together.

The Stand
Standing sex is perhaps the most difficult but can definitely be very rewarding. If you have a very noticeable height difference, it may help if you are on stairs or an incline. If you aren’t able to support her weight on a counter top or in your arms, have her bend over a table or chair so your hands can be free to roam!

Mutual Finds

The real trick to learning what moves and positions your wife enjoys is to explore the art of mutual masturbation. Start slow and easy, with soft light and sexy music. Set the mood by feeding each other grapes or some other delicious bot not-too-heavy food, and sipping on wine or hot cocoa. Take your time so you both have the chance to really pay attention. Not only will the experience of showing off her masturbation skills to you help you learn how to touch your wife, but she will have the chance to watch you pleasure yourself and learn a few new things too!