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Talk Dirty to Me – Sexting 101


Talk Dirty to Me – Sexting 101

“I don’t have a library card, but do you mind if I check you out?”

Hey Big boy,

You must be practically an expert at talking dirty by now, after having read my previous posts on how to do dirty talk the right way. But there is one more thing you definitely need to know about. This is the technology age and sexy talk has definitely entered the world of technology full force. If you’re new to dirty talk it might feel more comfortable to send a cheeky little text or email than it is to say something face to face. But there are still many people who aren’t completely sure what to say via text or how this whole “sexting” thing is supposed to work anyway. This article is going to give you the complete low down on how to do it in a way that will add excitement, anticipation, and passion back into your relationship.

What can a sexy text or email do for you? Well, it gets the wheels turning in her head. The right words can get under her skin and get her hot and bothered thinking about you. A hot exchange in the middle of the day can be an incredibly effective foreplay technique. She’ll be thinking about you all day and by the time she sees you she won’t be able to resist jumping your bones!

What To Say

The best sexting and/or dirty emails to send are those that talk about what you are/want to do to your partner. It builds anticipation and gets her fantasizing about you. Try these to get you started:

  • Soft Core
    “I can’t get you off of my mind.”
    “I can’t stop thinking about what we’re going to do when I see you tonight.”
    “You drive me crazy, it’s impossible to concentrate when all I can think about is you in my bed.”
  • Hard Core
    “I’m so hard thinking about being inside you later tonight.”
    “The minute you walk in the door I’m going to rip your clothes off and (X) you right there.”
    “Are you getting wet thinking about me fucking you?”

Keep in mind that you should work up to hard core dirty talk. It’s not like dirty talk in the bedroom where the situation already warrants it. You don’t want to send her a hard core dirty text out of the blue and find out that her co worker was looking over her shoulder at the time. Start with something like “Are you alone? I need to talk to you about something.” Then you can either keep it soft core or start with soft core and work your way to hard core talk. You should also be gauging her reaction. Is she egging you on or are her responses general? You will be able to tell how to proceed from what signals she gives you.

Sexy Photos – Yes or No?

You have probably seen in the media that sending nude or sexy photos of yourself can be risky business. You need to trust your partner 110% in order to be sure that she won’t ever share your photos, even if one day you were to breakup/divorce. If you insist on sending photos back and forth, never send one that shows your face, just in case. And always show her the utmost respect by keeping any text or photo she sends you completely private. For your eyes only.

Leave Something to the Imagination

Even if you like more of a raunchy discourse you still need to leave something to the imagination. This is about building up sexual tension so you might not want to come right out and say what you are going to do. You can hint at things like “I have a surprise for you tonight” or “I’m going to spoil you tonight.”

Know Your Audience

If you have never talked dirty with your partner or if you haven’t been intimate yet, it’s probably best to hold off on the dirty texting/emailing for now. Or you can start with something really soft core like “I can’t stop thinking about you.” That can be interpreted as a really sweet text or it can elude to racier thoughts. Even if she likes dirty talk in the bedroom, she might not be the type that likes bringing it outside the bedroom. It’s important to know her well and evaluate what kinds of messages will get her hot and not offend her or turn her off.

Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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  1. Gene

    May 7, 2015 at 11:13 am

    Dear Gabrielle. I have tried all the suggestions you have graciously given to me and nothing works. She is totally unresponsive. Her sexual desires have packed up and left. I am at my wits end.

    She is 69 and I am 73 and I am still filled with the urge for sexual activity.
    I am thinking of going to a sex therapist for the both of us. We have been married for 40 years.
    Please feel free to suggest anything that could help us.

  2. Geoffrey

    May 7, 2015 at 1:55 pm

    Very powerful technique. It works to very “WET” undergaments. Great!

  3. ike

    May 7, 2015 at 2:22 pm

    Love this thanks dear

  4. jezz

    May 18, 2015 at 3:36 am

    My issues is similar to Gene, except I am 62 and she is 68. Just out if the clear she stop wanting sex. We used to enjoy each other for years. Never said no to me, now it’s like I don’t know you.

  5. Phakamani

    August 23, 2015 at 5:36 am

    These soft and hard core techniques work wonders. I have tried them countless times and OMG only fire-works are guaranteed later, lol. thanks.

  6. DEREK

    April 20, 2016 at 12:51 am

    with older women start by grooming there hair first whilst sat behind her between your legs talking romantically to her with lots of gentle touching cuddling and kissing her neck to get her to relax and into a state of trance maybe a glass of wine and soft music prior to oral oral and more oral from head to toe finally pussy oral to clit then finger(s) into her wet pussy using brisk ‘come to me’ over the G Spot until her nectar flows freely and she cums the firsttime

  7. hooolio

    May 5, 2016 at 12:23 pm

    Amazing! your techniques works wonders. this is a really good one

  8. Ankush

    May 8, 2016 at 5:54 pm

    Thanks a ton dear Gabrielle.Your techniques do work.God bless ya

  9. Jay

    May 14, 2016 at 9:04 am

    You could get her to try maca. It helps with menopausal signs and also increases libido in both men and women. Look it up on amazon. Wish y’all the best.

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