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Talk Dirty to Me – Part 1

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Talk Dirty to Me – Part 1

“I want to do things so wild with you that I don’t know how to say them.” – Anaïs Nin

I have the dirtiest thoughts running through my head today. You just wouldn’t believe what I’m thinking. The idea of knowing the inner, secret, sexy thoughts of a woman is a pretty big turn on, isn’t it? Wouldn’t you love it if you partner would share those dirty, sexy thoughts with you? I know I would!

Women like dirty talk too, it’s true. You might be surprised to find out that your partner has been dying to talk dirty to you too, but she might be worried about how you will react. Besides, even though men tend to enjoy talking dirty doesn’t mean that they know how to do it. There are various possible issues when it comes to talking dirty. There is the shy guy. There is the possibility of offending your partner by saying the wrong thing. The art of talking dirty. It really is an art form and today I’m going to help you master it, tackling a few problems and sharing a few solutions.

Problem #1 The Shy Guy

You want to be able to make her wet with just your words but you blank when it comes time to do the deed. That’s okay, believe me, you’re not the only one who turns a bit red at the idea of talking dirty. The solution? Start simple. Don’t feel the need to tell her your dirtiest thought. Dirty talk will only be sexy if you feel comfortable and confident in what you’re doing.

Master Rule #1 How to Talk Dirty

Dirty talk can be a real turn on if it’s delivered in the right way. That means with confidence. First try, leaning down and whispering right into her ear in a deep and sexy voice when you’re having sex or during foreplay. For shyer guys this can feel more comfortable than looking her right in the eye and talking dirty, plus you have the added bonus of tantalizing the erogenous zone of the ear with your hot breathe. If you still can’t think of anything to say, try expressing yourself through sound. Moaning, breathing heavy, grunting, sighing, and screaming can all express a lot without speaking a single word.

If you’re an old pro and totally comfortable with dirty talk, look her right in the eyes and say what’s on your mind. Your directness might make her blush, but it will also turn her on. Move your eyes all over her body as if you’re drinking her up with your eyes and then say something else.

Problem #2 Gauging Her Reaction

You want to talk dirty, but you’re worried about offending her with your words? My first piece of advice is to start with something more mild. If you think there is a possibility that you could offend her with something you say then you don’t want to start off calling her your “dirty, little slut!” Try some light dirty talk, like telling her how hot she makes you and how sexy she is. Gauge her reaction. You should be able to tell if she’s enjoying that or not. Then you can begin to spice things up, whilst continuing to gauge her reactions.

Communication is important when it comes to the sexual relationship. While talking about how she feels about something you said might break the mood at the time, you can always check in afterward. And if you think you have offended her then you can apologize right away. Sincerity goes a long way.

Master Rule #2 Setting the Rules

Get your partner in on it and talk to her about what kind of dirty talk she likes. You might be surprised to find out that your sweet girlfriend has quite the mouth on her in the bedroom. Set some ground rules for dirty talk. There might be words that she finds offensive or situations that are a big turn off. Identify these so you can be sure to steer clear of them during your dirty talk. This will also give you the opportunity to share some of your favorite dirty talk scenarios, phrases, and fantasies with your partner.

Dirty talk can really bring a new, exciting element into the sexual relationship. Through talking alone couples can explore sexual fantasies and role playing, deepening and strengthening their sexual connection.

Hot, wet kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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12 Comments

  1. Aristotelis Alestas

    April 28, 2015 at 7:05 am

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you Gabrielle!for all your tips! Very good blog post. I certainly love this site.

  2. Kulli

    May 3, 2015 at 3:01 pm

    Hi Gabrielle i love you and your work and all that you email me but for some reason my phone won’t let me access the video’s that you sent me before and now and i love sex just as much as you do and i am also high in sex and as you but not only i can’t watch your videos but i am also unlucky not to have and get sex at all which otherwise would love to so i wonder if you can find a solution to my problems thanks

  3. Frederick Venner

    May 5, 2015 at 1:26 am

    With great pleasure i write to you and comment. It is long long overdue that babaee wisdom begin teaching ignorant man. I not accuse men of stupidity, but lament at their short cummings regarding the pleasures of life from learning from courageous women like yourself. You are a hero of human education and truth. Truly thank you for speaking TRUTH to power. In my own way i send you my love, Fred

  4. Lloyd Muchero

    May 5, 2015 at 6:26 am

    Practising what you preach about has increased our bond with my wife.We are on a new height and the excitement is chilly hot.Never stop on this one for you are creative relationship grower,enhancer,sustainer-etc

  5. Chari Peno

    August 15, 2015 at 6:21 pm

    All good, but I would have gladly read some examples of actual words/expressions of duty talk, just to for ideas for a better vocabilary.
    Also, discussing/asking what she might like/not like, and even more apologizing for a mistake (which is inevitable, always) takes a good deal out of the male dominance. First, you you as man, prove that you aren’t really sure of what you’re doing. Second, you’re definitely displaying a fear of making mistakes, which is not manly and so lowers her respect for you.
    I instead opt for trial and error, where, as you Gabrielle correctly pointed out, I start slowly, more innocently and watch for reactions, adjust accordingly. Thus, escalating slowly the degree of “dirt”, the inevitable mistakes one makes, will never be too bad, and so without negative consequences. No need for excuses. The sheep whole and the wolf satisfied…

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    September 10, 2015 at 1:19 pm

    Your way of describing everything in this piece
    of writing is actually good, every one can effortlessly know it, Thanks a lot.

  7. ken

    December 14, 2015 at 10:57 pm

    The suggested ways are ok, but for anovice, what do you say?

  8. Fareed

    December 18, 2015 at 6:53 pm

    Thank you very much, Gabrielle. Your ideas are really very astonishing. They will spice up my sexy life. All what you say turn me on and make me love sex more and more. I am sure that any lady will love me very much and become addicted to me if I follow your thoughts carefully. Also I feel that I can practise love better in the near future because of your exciting opinions about sexual life. Thank you very much and I adore to hear more and more from you.

  9. jason tyrrell

    December 18, 2015 at 8:56 pm

    I generally like to describe what I’m going to do to her as she’s getting hot I tell her you want me to taste you don’t you on the thought of tasting you makes my body quiver with excitement, i also love making her beg me to let her cum

  10. Jack Thorn

    January 21, 2016 at 6:54 pm

    I learn things from these blogs and that’s great, thank you. One thing that bothers me is that I hear all the time, “talk dirty”, but that’s not supported by actual phrases that a guy can say, and when there are some listed there aren’t many and they aren’t particularly good. How about making a list for your next blog?

  11. Raúl

    July 15, 2016 at 6:33 pm

    Thanks Gaby for educating the 50 plus men like me who are very much Sexual Active and tare always willing to Learn

  12. Ramesh

    August 10, 2016 at 4:01 am

    Thank you Gabrie…. luv this article. hot and wet kisses

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