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Tonight’s Sex Plan – Fingering!

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Tonight’s Sex Plan – Fingering!

There is something that you can do tonight that she’s going to love, and it’s probably something you haven’t done for a really long time. I’m talking about fingering. It’s probably something you do every once in awhile during foreplay, or it might be something you haven’t done since you were a teenager. Either way, fingering is what’s on the menu the next time you want to get intimate with your partner, and I’m going to tell you exactly how to do it to blow her mind!

* Fingering is a great change of pace to the regular sex act. Instead of making it part of foreplay, this time fingering her is going to be the main event. If done the right way, it feels amazing and it will make her a little nostalgic for her younger years when fingering was all kids did!

*  Another great thing about fingering is that it’s easy to incorporate clitoral stimulation. This is great news because many women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. Even though you can stimulate her clit during sex, a lot of men don’t and some positions are tricky. When you’re hands are down there you have everything you need to give her a great orgasm.

* One final benefit of this hot sex act is that your partner can just lie back, relax and focus on receiving pleasure. It’s rare that a woman gets to be the total focus of sex, so spoil her and let her enjoy it!

* So, let’s get down to business. Before even entering the bedroom you need to make sure that your hands and nails are well manicured. This means making sure they are clean, as soft as possible, nails trimmed and hangnails clipped.

* Use lubrication. A good lube is so important when it comes to clitoral stimulation and fingering. Even though she has her own natural lubrication when she gets turned on, this isn’t enough. A silicone based lube feels incredible and therefore should always be used when you finger her.

* Don’t go straight for the genitals. In order to build up anticipation and increase the intensity of her sensation and orgasm, you want to tease her a bit. Start by kissing her and slowly undressing her. Touch her body, but make a point to avoid her genitals. Slowly make your way towards her vulva, ever so slowly, making sure that you’re really building up the intensity.

* You’re going to need both hands for this. Use one to finger her and the other you’ll use for stimulating her clitoris. With the clitoris hand, start slow and VERY gently making circles over the areas with your lubed up fingers. Start fingering her with your other hand, first with just one finger and then graduate to two. You can also begin to increase the intensity as she gets more turned on.

* Check in with her. Ask her if she likes one finger or two. Ask her if she wants you to be more gentle or touch her with more intensity. It’s a great time to slow down and watch her. Take note of what she likes and dislikes. This is a good way to learn more about her body because your attention is completely focused on giving her pleasure and her reactions to your touch.

* Do a variety of motions and combinations with your two hands. With your hand that is stimulating her clit, try making circles with your thumb, running your finger up and down the length of her clit, and from side to side. With your hand that is fingering her, try different speeds and intensities. Try thrusting shallow and then deep. Crook your finger up in a “come hither” motion as you finger her. Twist your wrist as you move your fingers in and out of her vagina. Try just stimulating her clit alone, then just fingering her alone, then combine the two things. All the time you’re doing this you should also be observing her reactions and checking in with her verbally if necessary.

* Put her in charge. Let her know that you want to please her. Tell her to signal to you if she wants you to continue doing something or stop doing something. You can even give her a way to signal to you without speaking, like tapping your arm if she likes something.

Have a great time! Giving your partner manual stimulation is a lot of fun and a great way to break out of your normal sex routine.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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8 Comments

8 Comments

  1. karl

    November 28, 2015 at 6:55 pm

    good information on technique, not to boring, but helpful even to older person,

  2. Dennis

    November 28, 2015 at 8:53 pm

    Excellent information. I really like that it is an act of unconditional love, [or should be]. Were pleasuring her without expectations for ourselves.

  3. george

    December 20, 2015 at 10:22 pm

    all this is great and wonderful , but it does not help with the main problem , which is to get her in my bed to begin with !

  4. sham

    December 21, 2015 at 12:57 am

    Good but I done it …i make her more pleasure…for first 20 to 30 ..mint by fingering….but its really good….they cant control there feel& he was saying my cock is big …..

  5. PMS 24-7

    December 21, 2015 at 4:26 am

    Try doggy style with your thumb in her vagina then use your fingers to syimulate hr vulva and clitoris. This enables you to also rub her pubic mons with your fi9ngers and thus put added pressure on her “G” spot and your thumb is about 1.5 times your finger thickness

  6. Joe

    December 21, 2015 at 5:39 am

    Nice article. For me fingering is my usual routine with my wife. It can last for up to an hour or longer when you include foreplay. Most of the time I will work regular missionary sex into the fun, but just for a couple minutes. Then we may continue with the fingering. Between her squirting and my juices it is really nice down there. Only one thing I do different is we don’t need artificial lube ever.

  7. joe

    December 23, 2015 at 2:39 am

    This is my usual act of love and pleasure, except between her squirting and my juices we don’t need lubes.

  8. raman

    August 13, 2016 at 1:34 pm

    Excellent information, but how to add a good massager cum sex toy and which one for begeners ?

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