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The sexiest spots to touch her during sex

“Afterward she lies nestled against me, her hair tickling my face. I stroke her lightly, memorizing her body. I want her to melt into me, like butter on toast. I want to absorb her and walk around for the rest of my days with her encased in my skin.”- Sara Gruen

Rest assured, robotically moving your hand up and down her body won’t get her ready for action. If you want to achieve sex god status, you have to truly master the way you touch her lady bits. According to the pros, the secret is knowing which areas of your sexual anatomy are similar to hers.

Biologically speaking, men and women start with the same parts in the womb- which means we’re built with many common tissues and numbers of nerve endings. So if you think of her erogenous zones like some of your own when you’re stimulating her, it’s easier to understand how she feels.

For each of her key down there hot spots, I pinpoint the male part you should link it to in your mind- because either they’re constructed similarly or they just happen to respond to touch in a similar way- and provide you with some awesome new moves to try.

1. Think of the outer curve of her breast… like your shaft

Consider how it feels when she gently caresses your shaft at the beginning of foreplay. She may not be making a beeline for the obvious pleasure gold mine that is rhythmic movements to your penis, but you’re still totally turned on, right? Same goes for her breasts: touch it lightly, avoiding the nipples, and you’ll build her anticipation, making her all revved up.
Next, step up the pressure. Like your shaft, there aren’t a ton of nerves in her breasts, so they can handle a firmer grip. A woman can also get frustrated when a man is too gentle with her. That said, you can definitely be firm- don’t be afraid to grab them in your palms and stroke them with passion.

2. Think of her nipples… like your testicles

You know when your testicles get bigger and darker when you’re turned on? So do a girl’s nipples. When a man is excited, his scrotal sac fills with blood and becomes more sensitive. Likewise, when a woman becomes aroused, her nipples enlarge because they are engorged with blood. Another way her nipples are like your boys? Most guys do not appreciate being manhandled down there. Just like you don’t want her to pinch your balls to the point of pain, she prefers softish touches on her nipples.
Try these:
• As you kiss her, cradle her nipples in your palm. No need to caress- your hand’s warmth is enough.
• Lightly massage her magic buttons using your thumb and forefinger.
• Rub the flat sides of your fingernails (not the edges!) against her nipples. They’re harder, smoother and cooler than your fingertips, so it feels different.
• When you are on top and feel like she’s on the verge of climaxing, reach out and gently pull her nipples. Stretching them like this exposes more nerve endings, making her orgasm more intense.

3. Think of her pubic mound… like the base of your penis

When you take a break from stroking her clitoris with your fingers and rub her pubic mound- the round, fleshy area just above her hot button- it’s a steamy treat. That’s mainly because blood rushes there when she’s turned on, but it’s also because it stimulates her clitoral hood- the fold of skin that surrounds and protects her clitoral glans. Since it’s less sensitive, it can handle both gentle squeezes that get her ready to go and the rougher sort once you’ve built the heat. Essentially, the pubic mound is a good place to add some variety to your repertoire. Try this trick: Make your fingertip into a firm point, and trail it around the mound. Since you usually focus on the top three quarters of her vaginal area, she’ll be surprised and aroused.

4. Think of her clitoris… like the head of your penis

Her clitoris is jam-packed with millions of nerve endings, as is the tip of your member. However, if the head of your penis can take a bit more pressure- the nerves are spread over a slightly larger area- her clitoris is more sensitive. This spot is filled with nerves, so it needs to be stimulated carefully. Tease the areas around it first, and then make your way to it, building up speed as you go. But finger with caution: if you spend too much time there or are too rough too soon, she may become overstimulated, and that can be really painful for her. To keep that from happening, switch up your tactics. Don’t stick with one for more than 10 seconds or so.

5. Think of her G-spot… like your perineum

All hail the sexy G-spot. It’s the small, spongy area located about 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina that gives her one of those super-deep, way intense orgasms. A guy’s perineum, the patch of skin between your anus and testicles, is a very similar producer of body rocking inner pleasure, since it has nerves that run straight to your prostate, which is known as the male G-spot. Treat her G-spot with these fingering moves:
• As you’re stroking her clitoris with one hand, reach down and insert one finger inside her vagina, massaging her G-spot with the pad of your thumb. Roll it from one side to the other, almost like you’re giving a fingerprint.
• Do the same trick as the one described above, but while giving her oral. It’s best to use this move if you’re ready for her to finish, since the combo of oral and G-spot contact is sure to speed things up.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. In order for your fingers to really work their magic, bring a friend: lube! It will feel just like oral sex, only better, cause you’re more spot-on with your fingers.

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15 Comments

15 Comments

  1. Emmanuel Chika

    July 2, 2012 at 7:27 pm

    you make me fell like a man each time i read your books, how i wish i can have a woman like u i will forever remain grateful unto God. once again thank u for the book each time i read this book my penis will always rise how i wish i have a girl friend but all the same Pls, Pls keep the good works it is not easy thank u

    if i have the Money i will have remarried you from your Husband!

  2. andrew mafios

    July 8, 2012 at 7:16 am

    Thnx Gabriel m enjoying sex to e fullest

  3. Mekkyluvall

    July 21, 2012 at 1:44 am

    Ur 1daful,I really appreciate ur work.u hv made me d ladies delight,they kp asking 4 more.tnx,my pretty queenn.

  4. Dave

    July 21, 2012 at 9:45 am

    Thanks for that part. But we, guys should never rush to touch her thing before she is totally sexualised. It will retrogress the game and make her feel uncomfortable. First, the neck. then the chest and breasts.. the back. the bottom, the legs, the feet, back to the chest. We shall lower our fingers to he lower lip and critoris when she begins to pull us closser to he. Thanks!

  5. Obi

    July 21, 2012 at 12:25 pm

    This is educative Gabie, Will begin the syncronizing of my body and my wona’s tonight. I’ve never realy thought we had so much in common when it come to teasing you know. Am impressed with you and your works and will stay your fan a long time. Thanks Gabie, do have a romantic weekend and dont spoil that husband of yours too much with these tips. Am not jealous. CHEERS!

  6. now2gether

    July 21, 2012 at 12:45 pm

    thanx, sometimes ur ideas r useful, r u married?

  7. jollen

    July 22, 2012 at 4:52 am

    i just dont know how i can describe, so wonderful and life saver!!!
    i wish could get your book from a shop and not through online by using my bank card… I’m very interested in your books, but i dont know how safe it is to purchase online, and if safe, how does the delivery work, how long it takes etc.

  8. Auxtin

    July 22, 2012 at 5:04 pm

    Tanks geb! I so much appreciate you and your tips. pls my dear keep them coming. You are building a better man and lasting relationship.Keep it up.Tanks

  9. Mr Sandman

    September 18, 2012 at 3:39 pm

    I thank you….

    The women in my life call me…
    “The Specialist”

    P.U.A.’s teach: how to tease

    Gabrielle Moore teaches: how to please!

    (there is a DIFFERENCE !!!! )

  10. Abdi Mbuvi

    December 14, 2012 at 7:50 am

    Thanks my lecturer, i’ll live to remember your teachings.

  11. William (BILL)

    February 24, 2013 at 3:38 pm

    I really wish I knew the Info You have tought me over that last 3 years! I am turning the big 50 next month, If I had this 30 years ago, lol, I would be happily married, but I didn’t, and this info was not available to me. I am a better man today, I treat the women in my life as I always have, respect, love, and positive compliments, Like Your look Beautiful today, or gorgeous, attractive, and so many others. Women deserve these complements, they work HARD to please us with their looks, so when you tell them in a complement, NOT- O’baby I want to @#$% #*@. That would be for a couple, softly in her ear, lol. Time and place, for all kinds of attention for her is one of the so many things You have tought ME, and I Can’t thank YOU enough! To be with a woman like you would be a true learning experience, and so many O”s. I truly appreciate ALL you have tought US men!

  12. Isayas

    July 31, 2013 at 7:25 pm

    wow !
    my dear Gabri this is the greatest Alchemy i have ever read in my life
    i realy have no words save 10 Q

  13. tondox

    September 9, 2013 at 8:56 pm

    Thanks Gabbyy Dis is quite infoducative

  14. mutema dishon

    November 30, 2013 at 12:57 pm

    thanks for good sexual ideal…give more

  15. comotano

    February 26, 2014 at 5:07 pm

    Thanx for this great piece,you really make my sexual life get better each passing day.great job

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