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Sexual Fingering for an OMG (Combined Clitoral and G-spot) Orgasm

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Sexual Fingering for an OMG (Combined Clitoral and G-spot) Orgasm

This technique was first practiced over 3000 years ago in India, as an ancient Tantric sexual technique, which allows woman to experience the ultimate orgasm. While 70% of women can only orgasm via clitoral stimulation, this technique involves combined stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot to bring a woman to what is called a “combination” or “blended” orgasm. I like to call it an OMG Orgasm!

Here are the steps in performing the Venus Butterfly technique via manual stimulation.

1. Prepare Yourselves – Lovers should prepare themselves before performing this technique. She should use the bathroom to eliminate any urine as she may experience female ejaculation. He should make sure his hands are clean and well manicured. Both partners may want to do some activity beforehand that helps them relax like taking a bath, yoga, or sensual massage.

2. Prepare Your Space – Prepare your love nest so it is clean, uncluttered and seductive. Don’t forget to put towels and/or a plastic sheet on the bed in case she ejaculates. Create a loving, relaxed and comfortable environment to begin. And, make sure to have plenty of lubricant on hand, which you will need for fingering.

3. Foreplay – Foreplay is an important part of any lovemaking routine as it allows her to warm up which is essential to her ability to orgasm. While some women can do it on the fly, most are not that lucky. So, have a hot make out session to begin, with lots of kissing, fondling, hugging and caressing to get you both in the mood for sex.

4. Oral Sex – Oral sex is a great way to prepare her for other sexy delights to come. Start by opening her labia and licking her vulva from bottom to top and back again in slow sensual strokes, as if you were licking a delicious ice-cream. Next, use shorter, firmer strokes using your tongue in a flickering motion around her clitoris, then back to slow long strokes again. Do this until she gets very aroused, almost, but not quite to the point of climax.

5. Penetration – Next you will use your finger(s) to penetrate her vagina. Make sure to apply plenty of lubricant to your fingers and the vaginal opening, even if she is wet, as this makes the sensations much more powerful. Using one to two fingers, reach about 1-2” inside and locate her G-spot. By now it should be puffed up with arousal. Gently stroke her G-spot with long, firm strokes. Alternately, you can use a gentle tapping motion slightly pressing into the G-spot repeatedly.

6. Clitoral and G-spot Combined – Go back to stimulating the clitoris with your tongue or fingers. Again, make sure you use plenty of lube. Stroke or rub around the clitoris in circular motion until you find her sweet spot. This spot will be at 1 o’clock or (but less often) at 11o’clock from her clitoris (upper left or right) and is her most sensitive orgasmic spot on her clitoris. Continue to stimulate this area until she is ready to orgasm. At the same time, continue to stimulate the G-spot. As she gets more aroused she may begin thrusting her hips and pressing her G-spot into your fingers. Great! This means she is about to orgasm.

7. Don’t Stop – One of the worst things you could do is stop when she is this close to orgasm. Keep going whatever it takes to push her over the edge. As her orgasm builds, she may like a more firm, thrusting pressure into her G-spot, and very rapid flickering on the sweet spot of her clitoris. Follow her body language, moans and verbal commands “Yes, right there!”, but whatever you do, don’t stop.

8. OMG Orgasm – If you have done your job well and she has responded, then she will now be achieving a crazy, ecstatic, body-quaking OMG orgasm, with both clitoral and G-spot blended orgasms combined into one. Way to go!

9. Continuous Orgasms – After the climax period, women have the ability to have multiple or continuous orgasms if you slow down right after orgasm, then continue stimulating once again. You can try this in the future after she has gotten used to the intensity of the combined OMG orgasm.

10. Feedback – After your lovemaking session is a good time to ask for feedback: what she liked most, didn’t enjoy, etc. This will hone your skills and make you a Maestro who is able to play her body like an orgasmic symphony.

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8 Comments

8 Comments

  1. Jay

    September 17, 2014 at 1:47 am

    Very good information for maximum pleasure.

  2. Fred neumann

    September 17, 2014 at 4:04 am

    Prove it to me it sounds like a bunch of bs
    What about those of us suffer from erectile dysfuction have any ideas about this 1

  3. joe

    September 17, 2014 at 5:43 pm

    I have done this for years by tril and era I am so glad to know now that iwas close to doing the right thing for thease a mazing ladysi need one now for the rest of my life to please

  4. Robert

    September 17, 2014 at 7:57 pm

    I have been doing this for many years but after she has an orgasm she says it hurts if I continue. What do I do now.

  5. isack aringo

    September 19, 2014 at 2:12 pm

    That’s erotic

  6. jidofor

    September 21, 2014 at 7:08 am

    I shall try it on my wife. Thanks for the info

  7. Kenny

    October 1, 2014 at 2:22 pm

    I have a question to the experts out there: “What to do when she reaches her climax? do I bring her to orgasm and when it happens, leave the vagina to boil on its own or should I continue to stimulate? I agree that one should continue with stimulation up to orgasm, but my wife’s orgasms are extremely intense and she pushes me away with all her strength and sometimes I leave her to toast on her own while I try to stimulate the breasts or continue kissing. I just don’t know if I do the right thing or not. input please?

  8. Mongo

    February 21, 2016 at 5:35 pm

    Hi Susan,

    What are your thoughts on using organic coconut oil as a lubricant? Seems like a ke it would work well.

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