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Public Cervix Notice: The Low-Down on Going Deep

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Public Cervix Notice: The Low-Down on Going Deep

If you are particularly well endowed, or your lover has an especially shallow vaginal canal, you may already have experience with the variety of sensations that the cervix is capable of producing.

The cervix is the small sphincter-like opening at the deep end of the vaginal canal, acting both as a barrier and passageway to the uterus. At different stages of your wife’s menstrual cycle, her cervix can be hard and painful to touch, or soft and quite receptive. Some women may never enjoy the sensation of cervical stimulation, but for others it can be an instant orgasm hot-button! Wouldn’t you like to find out which?

Keep in mind that penetrating the cervix would not only be incredibly painful, but also incredibly dangerous. The tiny opening found there is designed to let semen in and blood out, and that’s about it. Any kind of bacteria or other material forced through the opening can cause great damage – in fact, this is why health professionals discourage any kind of penetrative “thrusting” sex in the pool or the bath, because chlorinated water can be awfully painful and damaging to the interior of the uterus. Women who have previously given birth are likely to have a slightly larger cervical opening, so even greater care is needed.

In any kind of cervical play, take it slow and play safe!

The cervix has three main properties which change throughout the cycle – size, texture, and wetness. The condition of the cervix not only predicts ovulation and other important aspects of her monthly cycle, but can tell you whether or not she will enjoy deep penetration which might come into contact with the tiny opening.

Hard Knocks and Closed Doors

At the beginning and very end of her menstrual cycle, the cervix will be mostly closed (opening only slightly during menstruation to allow for her flow). The texture of the cervix will be hard and in the absence of menstrual fluid, dry. In the first 10-14 days after the onset of menstruation, and the last 7-10 of an average 28 day cycle, it is likely that contact with the cervix will result in painful sex.

If you find that you are hitting her cervix every time you engage in intercourse, be sure you are engaging in enough foreplay. As a woman gets aroused, even in the early stages of her cycle, the vaginal canal will deepen and give you more room for thrusting. If she is still shallower than you need, putting her in a position on top will allow her more depth control.

Women who are taking hormonal birth control are likely to find themselves in a semi-permanent state of cervical rigidity, meaning that it is unlikely she will be able to experience pleasure from cervix stimulation. If this is the case, and your size is causing her pain because of it, you may want to consider alternative forms of contraception that don’t have the same hormonal effects, like Fertility Awareness or an intra-uterine device. These options are particularly helpful if low libido is also an issue, since her natural ovulatory cycle encourages an increase in stimulating sex hormones.

Soften Up and Open Sesame!

When you make it to her sweet spot, a few days to a week between her 10th and 20th day, you will notice the cervix begin to soften. The small opening begins to widen slightly. Cervical mucus is produced by the body, making the vagina and uterus a habitable pH level receptive to sperm. This process not only prepares her body for conception, but can also make it not just less painful but incredibly erotic to enjoy light cervical stimulation.

Try going in with your fingers. Pushing her legs up and back toward her head will help to shorter her vaginal canal, so you can reach. Be very gentle. You may find that while direct stimulation of the cervical opening still feels strange or even painful, there is likely to be a spot to the side of the cervix which can produce almost immediate orgasm. This isn’t the case for all women, but it is worth the search!

Slowly circle the edge of the cervical opening, moving outwards towards the vaginal walls. The cervix is likely to move to one side, and in the area left exposed you will find an incredibly sensitive spot just waiting for your careful, gentle stimulation. Don’t thrust or push, but use very small strokes. Couple this stimulation with oral or other clitoral touch and you can have her shooting through the roof… and in the very best way possible!

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15 Comments

  1. shawn

    February 17, 2012 at 12:02 am

    Hi! I’m female, btw, and I’d like to know Where I can find more info on how I can rock HIS world! I want to be the best he’s ever had!

  2. Dncnwrk

    February 23, 2012 at 4:53 am

    I am 72 years old with a 75 year old lover. I have always (for 50 years) had a very difficult time achieving an orgasm. My lover is willing to try new things sometimes and I have given him the two books I purchased from you online. Do you have tricks for G-spot orgasms and/or clitoral orgasms and/or cervical orgasms that are fairly fast and easy to learn?

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  5. Emma

    March 3, 2012 at 9:31 pm

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  6. Basant

    March 4, 2012 at 7:17 pm

    thank you very much for your valuable information…!

  7. Ronald Williams

    March 4, 2012 at 7:58 pm

    my wife is 72 and has lost the wonderful desire that she did have antil resently and is less interested in me and i cant stand it i feel like i dont belong and i like it every night or every morn. and she dont care if it ever happens again

  8. victor keya

    March 31, 2012 at 4:51 pm

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  9. Michael

    April 2, 2012 at 12:04 pm

    My wife is 30 and sometimes complains that it hurts when I penetrate her.I’m not to big for her because 50% of the time their is no problem.Even with a lot of forplay to turn her on it stil hurts her sometimes.

  10. Sheila

    April 10, 2012 at 8:57 am

    Thanks for everything you’ve taught me! I used to hate sex and now I love it. I’m a 32 year old woman and I was in a marriage for 12 years! Sex was horrible. I have a new man in my life and sex is great, but I’m not quite sure about being on top even though I love the way it feels. Just wondering how I can move, bounce, rotate my hips to make it better or catch him off guard to rock his world???.. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks!!!

  11. Mary

    May 19, 2012 at 10:13 am

    I’ve been getting a pvelic exam yearly, sometime 2-3 times a year, since I was 16 and I still learned something new from this video. It was interesting getting to see just what the doctor is doing is looking for down there. Thanks Megan!

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  15. Thokozani

    June 22, 2014 at 9:14 am

    All I can say is, THANK YOU for making me a better lover when it comes to sex. Your tips works wonders hence I’m being regarded as a super star by my girlfriend wen it comes to love making and different positions. Keep up reviving our relationship.

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