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On the Map: Fingering her Favourite Spots

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On the Map: Fingering her Favourite Spots

The power of love to change bodies is legendary, built into folklore, common sense, and everyday experience.  Love moves the flesh, it pushes matter around…  Throughout history, “tender loving care” has uniformly been recognized as a valuable element in healing.
– Larry DosseyA woman’s body isn’t just mysterious if you haven’t had the chance to get right up close and personal with her precious parts, but because it is so changeable. The month-long cycle that governs your wife’s attitudes and arousal makes her a whole new woman at each step along the way. While she may be incredibly receptive to your touch when she is ovulating, a short two weeks later she might be too sensitive for even the lightest play.

Try-Cycle

It can be hard to plan your sex life around a menstrual cycle that you don’t understand, so get ready for everything you need to know to mix and match your plans with her period.

For all intents and purposes, the first day of your wife’s period is “Day One”. The guidelines that follow her hormonal changes are just that, guidelines. They are not set in stone, but general averages. Some women have long cycles, some short, but most average in the 28-29 day range.

Somewhere usually around day 10-14, the hormones that control fertility spike, causing increased lubrication and desire for sex. You can use your fingers to avoid intercourse, staying safe from pregnancy, or you can get hands-on as a way to bring her to orgasm to prime her for intercourse, if you are attempting to conceive.

This sexual tension will continue to grow until her ovaries are signalled to release an egg, and from her her fertility and natural desire will begin to wane. As she grows once again closer to menstruation, her body becomes more sensitive,

If you don’t think you have the know-how to make the first move to touch her hottest spots, start taking notes! Here are some tips to explore her entire body.

Zoning Laws

Out of the Way

The obvious erogenous zones are so, well, obvious. Why not start somewhere new? Instead of heading right for her breast, why not caress her face, nibble her ear lobes, stroke her hair, kiss her neck, rub her belly, squeeze her butt, or even just hold her hand.

Up in the Mountains

The breasts, topped so pointedly by the clusters of nerve endings in the sensitive nipples, are many men’s first stop on the road to arousal. Squeeze gently and don’t overdo it unless she expresses a desire – her nipples might appreciate being lightly rolled between the fingers, or sucked gently between your lips. Don’t bite!

Over the Hill

The “mons pubis” is the fatty mound of flesh under her pubic hair, cushioning a woman’s pubic bone. The area isn’t particularly sensitive, especially if it is covered in hair, but pressure here can stimulate all the other areas of the vulva below.

Loose Lips

On the other side of the mons, holding in all the more sensitive parts between her legs, the outer labia is the first to get red and puffy as her arousal levels rise. The thin inner lips are are much finer and also make up the clitoral hood, which protects her “little hill” from your more aggressive advances.

Little Bits

The clitoris is the key to orgasm for a vast majority of women, so if you haven’t learned to manipulate it like a master, it’s time to begin. It may look small and perhaps even insignificant, but the actual size of the clitoris, buried deep in the pelvic wall, rivals that of the average penis.

This complex of nerves and tissues is incredibly sensitive to touch both on the outside of the vulva and from inside the vagina, where fingers in particular are amazing tools for finding the extra special spots that hide inside.

Skene Tight

Most men don’t think of the urethra as a sexual component to the genitals, but the little exit valve not only contains a small amount of erectile tissue which responds to stimulation, but houses the infamous Skene’s Gland, the mysterious spot that produces the fluid ejaculated during a G-Spot orgasm. A little lick or flick of the urethral opening is a great way to ease her into squirting stimulation!

The Jade Chamber

Once your fingers find their way inside your wife’s vagina, you have a virtual 360 degrees of pleasure to give her! You can try to imagine the cylindrical opening as a clock face, slowly exploring around in circles, using smaller circular motions to determine her more sensitive spots, both shallow and deep.

Back to Back

Don’t head for her back door until you’ve really mastered some other skills. If she is relaxed and ready to go from her first (few?) orgasms, she’s much more likely to enjoy a finger in her rear. If she isn’t quite ready to be anally penetrated, you can stimulate her clitoral complex by massaging her perineum, the smooth flesh between her vagina and her anus.

Find her hot spots, hold on tight and don’t let go!

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14 Comments

14 Comments

  1. Kevin

    July 31, 2011 at 5:32 am

    Dear Gabrielle

    My girls anal opening is weird. It’ Protrudes out like a little cone rather than a Rose bud I don’t know how to pleasure her as I don’t like to look let alone touch her there.
    We enjoy all other contact and positions fully. But this makes me uncomfortable. She is an anal virgin but I have experience
    What can I do ?

  2. Tony

    July 31, 2011 at 6:13 am

    Well this word sex everyone’s talking about it. It Give’s you a boost of thinking. If i had a girlfriend right now .My Depression will be gone and eventually i will be more happier.

  3. Kozy4real

    July 31, 2011 at 8:07 am

    My girlfrnd after she had be disvirgin,stll undergo some kind of pain in her private part pls wat can i do 2 sustain dis….am seriously worried,nd dis is affectng us…i wnt u 2 advise me..tanx

  4. Uttam Kumar Dutta

    July 31, 2011 at 10:13 am

    yours is an excellent mail. will await for you further.

  5. Kevin

    July 31, 2011 at 3:18 pm

    I would tickler her in pantyhose giggling voice of hers, I t will keep me horny, bodyhose, catsuit tickling her, fucking tickling her at ther same time. gives me a boost sexuly

  6. Kevin

    July 31, 2011 at 3:19 pm

    anyone out there, let me know. I bought pantyhose for women that come over to me

  7. Peter

    July 31, 2011 at 4:25 pm

    I found this to be very good. Wish I had it when I was first married. But am looking to get married again later in life. I want to give her the best sex she has every had. Thank You. Gabrielle Moore

  8. Wolfman

    August 1, 2011 at 1:13 am

    My Wife was rased as a Jackass Wittness I was the first man she was with I think any how she has out on me twice we have had three kids and she is still real tight fit for me her tits are not real sensitive Iam so big that I dont last long tell me what I can do to keep her from leveing me.

  9. Ashanti

    August 1, 2011 at 2:14 am

    Hi Gabrielle i’m not a virgin but yet i don’t find the pleasure in sex, it always hurts just like the 1st time, n my man n i are always having problem cos i deny him of having sex. i need your advice.

  10. Mario

    August 1, 2011 at 2:18 am

    Thank you Gabrielle. One more very interesting lesson. I hope you have enough time to teach us more about this very sophisticated period known as menstrual cycle. Best Regards.

  11. Mr.David Abah

    August 1, 2011 at 7:39 pm

    Your teachings is called wonderful and i begin to ask my self who open the door of this experiences to you.Keep it up and more grease to your elbow.

  12. Lavar

    August 2, 2011 at 4:51 am

    Heck of a job there, it abosluetly helps me out.

  13. stephan

    August 2, 2011 at 9:08 pm

    Thank you very much Madam Moore. I learned lots of from you

  14. patrick

    August 6, 2011 at 10:32 am

    ma girl sees me as a different person every time we have sex cuz i come out with new ways to making her reach orgasm just before she realizes thanks to you GABRIELLE.

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