“Run your fingers through my soul. For once, just once, feel exactly what I feel, believe what I believe, perceive as I perceive, look, experience, examine, and for once, just once, understand.”- Reef
When it comes to stimulating a woman, you might think that the necessary (and sufficient!) tools are the mouth and the penis. Here’s why you’re wrong. The finger, or more of them, or the whole hand, if you’re feeling particularly naughty, can be an effective weapon as well, if the correct method is applied.
Nowadays the use of the fingers is mainly reserved to those few seconds of foreplay when you’re trying to get her panties off, and this happens mainly because lots of women don’t respond well enough to this kind of treatment and so you feel obliged to pull out the big guns (pardon the pun!). However, if you learn how to do it so that she feels the maximum amount of pleasure, fingering can become a sex act by itself, that powerful this tool can become.
But don’t think that I’m going to shoot you with straightforward, do this/touch here/press there type of tricks. There is no rulebook defining the tips that have to be followed for a profitable experience. Nonetheless, there are a number of variations or strategies you can use to improve her sexual satisfaction.
First of all, just before you begin, make sure she is sufficiently aroused. Engage in other aspects of foreplay to heat the atmosphere. Kiss her passionately all over the place and in a hurried rhythm, so that she feels that the earth is moving under her feet. Start your handiwork by playing with her lips, her breasts, her hips, wherever you know she gets pleasure from. If she’s the type of girl that is more romantic oriented, use your fingers for gentle caressing or even a little massage, to loosen her up.
After her first moan, which is a clear sign she’s good and ready and begging for more action, start circling her vaginal area, with slow-to-fast movements. Also, before commencing anything of this sort, you should make sure your fingers are properly trimmed and cleaned. Taking care of your digits is essential at this point, since the vagina is quite a sensitive organ and it can be easily torn or injured. Also, again, according to her likes, use lubricant for a more smooth process. There are women who take pleasure in dry fingering, but there are also ones that feel pain in this process.
Once she’s all wet, you can start inserting one or two fingers. Start by using circular motions when you’re inside her, increasing the speed according to her response. If her body is screaming in approval, try the quick finger method, which is perfect for more aggressive ladies, who are fans of fast paced intercourse. Make her lie in her back and spread her legs for more room for maneuvering. At this point, you can insert more fingers, or even go all the way to try vaginal fisting.
Push her to the finish line, by making good use of your other hand also. Have you heard of double (clitoridian and vaginal) orgasm? You can achieve this by pressing on her clitoris while your fingers are hammering away inside her. This technique doesn’t need lots of pace; a steady rhythm is more than sufficient for taking her to the peak of much awaited double orgasm.
Have a spectacular week-end,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. Once you’re inside her, you can curl your fingers. You’ll find her G spot in two seconds! To discover more advanced tips and techniques about fingering CLICK HERE NOW!
