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“Sex is… perfectly natural. It’s something that’s pleasurable. It’s enjoyable and it enhances a relationship. So why don’t we learn as much as we can about it and become comfortable with ourselves as sexual human beings because we are all sexual?” –Sue Johanson

No offense guys, but I’m about to say something that might just offend some of you. Men tend to be lazy and uncreative when it comes to pleasing women. Now before you get offended by that statement, allow me to clarify. This doesn’t apply to my wonderful readers of course! You’re all here with me because you want to avoid that nasty stereotype. You want to be the lover that your partner whispers to her friends about and just can’t believe how dedicated you are to her pleasure.

Today’s article is yet another way to wow her with your skills and creativity. I can almost guarantee you that she hasn’t experienced anything like this before. And if you do it right, she will be blown away by you and your sexual prowess.

This is a guide to a yoni massage. Yoni is what the female genitalia is called in tantra. This will be a combination of finger techniques, erotic massage, and tantric sex all rolled into one. A power pack, if you will! Here is my step by step guide:

1. Don’t rush. Women in general take more time to get aroused and to orgasm. Some women might feel self conscious about the amount of time they take and this can take her focus away from enjoying herself. Make sure that it’s clear that you are not in a rush whatsoever. Make sure she feels zero pressure coming from you.

2. Begin by placing your hand completely over her mons pubis (this is the mound of flesh that covers the pubic bone – usually covered in hair unless your partner removes it). Let your hand softly cup the area and warm it with your body heat. Put light pressure on the area.

3. Lubricant is key to this massage. Put some on your hand and begin making firm circles over her pubic bone. If she has hair there, be careful not to pull on it. Go slowly. You are close to the clitoris when stimulating this area, but not actually touching it. The clit is so sensitive, however, that this will be a great warm up.

4.  Now it’s time to make your way further down. Still avoiding direct contact with her clitoris, use your lubricated thumb or index finger to stroke up and down the inside of her labia (“lips”). Softly squeeze the lips together and pull them apart. Make small circles with the tips of your fingers up and down this area. Stroke her lips at varying speeds (never too fast) and varying amounts of pressure (never hard) on the inside and outside. There are branches of the clitoris found in the labia which feel amazing when stimulated in this way.

5. Now run your finger straight down the middle of her vulva. Begin at the pubic bone and lightly make a trail straight down over the clitoris, between her lips, over the vaginal opening and down to the perineum (this area between the vaginal opening and the anus). The perineum is very sensitive. Spend a few minutes just massaging this area, making circles of different sizes and shapes with your finger or thumb.

6. Now this next part might sound a little strange, but now you’re going to massage her urethral opening (the urethra is the tube where urine leaves the body). The urethra also is right next to the G spot, so it is a great area for stimulation. It’s located between the clitoris and vaginal opening. Stimulate it in the same way that you stimulated the other areas of her vulva, with varying circular motions.

7. Finally you’re ready to directly stimulate the clitoris. Begin by massaging the area on either side by running your fingers along the area. Then lightly squeeze the clit together and release. Then with the lightest touch possible, begin to make small, soft circles over her clitoris.

8. When going down to her vaginal opening, draw your finger around the opening in circular motions. Then insert your finger just slightly and remove. Repeat.

9. Once you’re fingering your partner, crook your finger forward to hit her G spot. Make the same small, circular motions on her G spot. Stroke in and out with your finger still bent. Do 9 shallow insertions and one deep one and repeat.

10. Combine fingering in this way with outer massage at the same time.

11. Once she has climaxed just hold her in your arms and stroke her hair or back.

This is a very powerful massage that you can do any time you want. It’s especially pleasurable for the woman because it goes at her pace and never tries to rush through to the next thing.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

P.S. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about fingering CLICK HERE NOW!

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15 Comments

15 Comments

  1. john

    June 3, 2015 at 7:34 am

    I like you series naked u I can’t wait to try my new knowledge of sexual pleasure on the ladies out there 😉

  2. Duc

    June 4, 2015 at 1:08 am

    Why I have to ” do 9 shallow insertions” ,but not 7 or 5 or any number?

  3. The Sex Ninja

    June 10, 2015 at 7:46 pm

    Gabrielle, once again you condense and simplify some of the most advanced techniques into this one-pager for the layman. One of your best posts I’ve seen. Great work!

    (Duc, you can just pick a number around 5-10, 9 is not magic.)

  4. Duc

    June 11, 2015 at 10:47 pm

    K 8 Then But 11’s best!!!

  5. Kevyd

    June 15, 2015 at 9:15 pm

    great,powerful and reassuring

  6. Howabout

    June 16, 2015 at 1:40 am

    How about some pictures or illustrations?

  7. Laurence

    June 16, 2015 at 12:38 pm

    Gabrielle,
    Since I joined this site adn your associates my fingering technique has just gone wild. My girlfriend feels as if she has not performed if I have not given her 3-5 orgasms on the trot, her record is 8 which I followed up with a squirter for her.
    She now cannot get enough of my fingers after I gave her 4 orgasms in as many minutes after the first one then told her I was going to give her a squirter and she had 3, one standing, one sitting on my lap before she collapsed on the bed and I gave her another. Neddless to say was well and truly devoted to my fingers from then on.

    Ps I have just turned 65 Yeee haaa

  8. jay-jay

    June 17, 2015 at 10:19 pm

    Am feeling like a king,begging me for more of it.thanks Gabrielle

  9. karan

    June 19, 2015 at 3:16 pm

    V.nice i sure it will more powerful orgism to my girl friend. …….

  10. Duc

    July 3, 2015 at 4:54 am

    Gabrielle, Hot!!! Sexy1!!!

  11. ERic

    September 9, 2015 at 10:30 am

    splendid Gaby. Feel like a king now. Thanks.

  12. Carlos

    September 16, 2015 at 6:04 pm

    Why use lube when the yoo hoo is already dripping wet ? Some girls won.t want this lube all over and in their yoo hoo .

  13. Jay

    September 20, 2015 at 5:57 pm

    This is great and I can’t wait to give my lady more pleasure …. Thanks Gabie

  14. Darius m manthata

    October 14, 2015 at 4:41 am

    i cant wait “gabbie”

  15. bumbo

    May 23, 2016 at 1:42 am

    Thanks Gabbie for the great technic even the impotent can give an orgasm

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