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In the Deep: A Husband’s Guide to Interior Genital Touch

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In the Deep: A Husband’s Guide to Interior Genital Touch

When you touch a body, you touch the whole person, the intellect, the spirit, and the emotions.
–  Jane HarringtonA woman’s pleasure centers have long held a mystery that seems so much more of a hidden secret than those of a man’s sexual enjoyment. While it is fairly easy to see what parts you touch when you’re turning on and understand how your body is configured, many of a woman’s special spots are hidden away deep inside, where only finesse and perseverance will help to find the key.

Do you find yourself wondering what mysteries lie beneath the calm surface of your wife’s skin? Do you want to know where that magical moisture begins, and discover spots inside her that will help take her over the edge with just about any kind of penetration?

The Straight and Narrow

Whether you begin with one finger or two (which, of course, is really up to your wife and her comfort levels), most men tend to think of fingering as thrusting straight digits in-and-out of the vagina as if the hand is just another penis. No offense darling, but you don’t need another one. I’m sure your wife is happy enough with the penis you were born with, so put your hands to better use; you didn’t go through all the trouble of improving your hand fitness for them to play second string to an intercourse main event. Pull out of that rut and try something different!

Don’t penetrate her without lubrication unless she has explicitly asked you to do so. If she is having difficult getting wet enough, bring in the reinforcements. Don’t make a big deal of it – many women are self-conscious about relying on products to perform functions they think their body should be able to do on its own, and there is no such need to fret. Lube is great even for those of us who do lubricate well, because it allows us to experience a whole new set of sensations!

Start slow to begin with, not entering her with any force at all, but allowing her to use her PC muscles to “pull”  your fingers in. Once you have entered her, try putting a bit of pressure on the walls of the vagina by swirling your fingers around in a circular motion and stopping to make smaller circles on-the-spot all the way around. You are likely to find that some areas of her entrance are more sensitive than others, which will help you to focus your energy there during intercourse as well!

Around the Bend

The most effective hand movement for interior stimulation is the “come hither” motion, characterized by curling the fingers in toward the palm. This little crook in your (typically, index and middle) fingers can be used to find the G-Spot about 1-2 inches inside the vaginal canal, as well as the A-Spot a couple inches beyond that. Both are incredible stimulation points for encouraging ejaculatory orgasms and lubrication. Don’t press too hard, and don’t thrust at all unless she begins to thrust herself onto your hand.

A twisting motion of the wrist while stimulating the front wall will hit her G-Spot and/or A-Spot with the same crooked fingers gives her a chance to experience the side-to-side motion, something altogether different from the thrusting or beckoning movement that most women are used to with this kind of play. You can also use this same finger pose to stimulate the back wall of her vagina, with your palm facing down toward her spine. She may not be accustomed to this kind of direct touch here, so take it easy and follow her lead.

A Fork In the Road

If you want to be truly masterful at genital touching, you will learn to stimulate your wife’s inner chamber and outer erogenous zones at the same time. You can use two hands both directed at her sex, or one hand focusing both externally and internally, while the other hand reaches for her breast or stimulates yourself!

One-handed moves are not nearly as difficult as they might sound. With your index and middle fingers you can stimulate her G-Spot while using your lubricated thumb to stroke her clit or rub her urethral opening, getting her even closer to the infamous squirting orgasm. If you want to get extra fancy, you can even employ a little round-about action and use your pinkie finger in this configuration to penetrate her anally! If she isn’t into rear entry, simply stroke her perineum gently with the backs of your ring and pinkie fingers. If you can pull off these great combo moves, you’re sure to bring her all the way over the edge.

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11 Comments

  1. Tom Thomas

    July 15, 2011 at 9:20 pm

    Well Gabrielle, I can tell you that I have used these techniques that you describe for almost 2 years now and you are right they elicit truely amazing results. I give massages to my lady friends and usually they have a happy ending. I am a very observant lover and pay close attention to my lover of the moment’s physical reactions, breathing and emotional responses. I also listen to what they have to say afterwards very carefully. I have taught ladies to have an orgasam in many ways and types. I look at it as helping them to learn about them selves and I teach and educate as the sessions progress. I take the time to learn my lovers responses and am always amased at the variety of ways there is to stimulate a woman from the man’s point of view if you just take the time to learn how. It pleases me to see the look of wander and appreciation that comes with the right techniques applied properly. I also want to say that no two women are exactly alike and they do not react the same way every time either. You have to read the moment and react with her responses. Doing this well will get you many a great love session and many grateful women for having taken the time to learn about and please a woman. This also pleases them man. If you have questions or discussion please feel free to contact me at my email address.

    Tom Thomas

  2. Khrys

    July 15, 2011 at 9:50 pm

    1-2 + 2-3 =3-5 inch penis head to touch her exciteables? She contracts her pussy enough to enclose your finger. Saw a stripper smoke a cigarette with her pussy many years ago!?
    Pussy tightening exercises instead of wanting/needing a larger penis?
    Squirting more enjoyable for all involved? Nutritious?(Same as breast milk-maybe-+close?)
    Sexy horny physical women need cuddling/kissing/carressing/licking/gentle touching(stimulation)?

    Most porn designed to sell their stimulating and penis growth products?

    Gabrielle-Designed for pure enjoyment? :>)
    Hugs and kisses and cuddles sweety!
    Khrys

  3. Mahlon

    July 16, 2011 at 12:15 am

    Keep up the good work.

  4. Mahlon

    July 16, 2011 at 12:16 am

    Keep up the good work. ……………………

  5. jamesmurphy

    July 16, 2011 at 1:29 am

    i like the guide genital touch, to be able to genitaley to touch my lady, it sounds real good to hear- and i would like to learn more. i can’not waite when i can order on,line-thanku for a realy good book.

  6. jamesmurphy

    July 16, 2011 at 1:32 am

    i like the guide genital touch, to be able to genitaley to touch my lady, its a realy good book.

  7. jamesmurphy

    July 16, 2011 at 1:53 am

    I love the guide interior to genital touch,to be able to genitalley touch my lady. I cant waite to order online.

  8. William

    July 16, 2011 at 9:22 am

    Kissis Gabrielle. i have lots on your notes, but hope to learn more from you. things will go on to be committed when times are right

  9. An Englishman

    July 16, 2011 at 4:21 pm

    Hi Gabrielle, Thanks so much for these suggestions which make sense from what I felt when giving such stimulation. As regarding her bottom, only external stimulation is wanted, and I will not pressurise the area, if you excuse the pun. I have problems maintaining the size/firmness of my penis so this will help us I am sure. Thanks in anticipation

  10. IBRAHIM K. Y

    July 17, 2011 at 10:16 pm

    YOUR WRITE UP HELP US IMMENSELY TO COVER OUR SEXUAL NEEDS.
    THANK’S

  11. asha

    July 18, 2011 at 1:52 am

    i liked the article as i masterbate and my husband fingers me few time but when i told to read this he started doing and i really felt different than before thanks for article

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