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Cum Together, Right Now

“Hey, don’t knock masturbation! It’s sex with someone I love.” –Woody Allen

If there is one thing I know for sure it’s that men are visual creatures. A guy can get turned on by an accidental flash of skin, by a sexy stare, or just the right curve to a woman’s body. Just one look and their brains start working on overtime. Before you know it he’s hard and ready to go. If only women were that simple! But this tendency to be visual can make sex so much more interesting and pleasurable for men. You might like to watch or to do it with the lights on so you can see all of her. You might like to watch her face as she cums.

While seeing it all is a huge turn on, it also has added benefits if done the right way. It can be used as a learning experience. Watching her reactions and body language will tell you that you’re on the right track if you’re really paying attention. Is that face a grimace or an expression of pleasure? Is she pulling back or bucking her hips up toward you? You can learn all about what she likes and doesn’t like just by looking and paying close attention.

Today we’re going to talk about an amazing activity that you can do together that’s hot and sexy and can help you learn just what she likes and doesn’t like: mutual masturbation! You probably thought masturbating was that thing you did when your partner wasn’t around or didn’t feel like having sex (or whenever the mood strikes!), but done with your partner it can be so much more than that!

Mutual masturbation can be done a few different ways and I recommend trying all of them! It can be masturbating yourself while she masturbates herself and you watch each other. It can also be masturbating each other simultaneously. Or it can be taking turns, either masturbating yourself or one another. Here’s where to start:

* I always recommend that you start by masturbating yourselves first. This will give you a chance to observe what she does to herself in order to get some tips for what gets her really hot. Notice the movements she uses, the pressure, the speed and the routine. Does she start out slow and then get faster? Notice if she touches other parts of her body, where and how.

You can first try touching yourselves at the same time since some people might feel uncomfortable masturbating alone in front of someone else. Even though you’re touching yourself, make sure your attention is on her.

* Next you can use the same techniques you observed her use to touch herself. You can either take turns or masturbate each other at the same time. I often suggest taking turns because then the person receiving can focus completely on their sensations instead of being distracted by what they’re doing.

* Mutual masturbation can involve touching yourself or your partner with your hands or with a sex toy. You should always have plenty of lube on hand to make sure things go smoothly. Watch how your partner touches her vulva. Does she focus all of her energy on her clitoris or does she stimulate other areas too? Does she use her fingers or a sex toy to penetrate herself? How is she touching herself? Pay attention to the way she moves her fingers over her body. And pay extra attention to how her touching changes when she cums. Does she slow down? Does she touch herself more quickly or in a certain place?

* Consider using a sex toy for mutual masturbation. Try a small vibrator that can be used externally and that has varying speeds. Or, if she loves penetration, you can buy a dildo that vibrates and has a separate stimulator for the clitoris. Pick out a toy together to make sure you’re getting the kind of toy she likes. Observe how she uses it, where she puts it, what speed and setting she leaves it on. Watch to see if she uses it the entire time or takes breaks.

Mutual masturbation is not only extremely hot and sexy, but you can learn a lot about pleasing your partner. Most men can’t think of anything better than getting to watch their partner touch themselves all night and then end up being a better lover because of it.

Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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9 Comments

9 Comments

  1. longdong

    May 16, 2015 at 7:49 am

    hi gabby tried your tip lastnite on mutual masterbation and we both loved it the pleasure we both got was fantastic xxx

  2. mahendra

    May 21, 2015 at 7:46 am

    Thanks very useful.

  3. dave

    May 21, 2015 at 12:10 pm

    Hey gabby,
    Tnx for ur tip,I’ll try it tonight with my lady, I know for sure she’ll love it, osshh.. Just can’t wait for such a sweet dirty play.

  4. Train

    May 22, 2015 at 7:06 am

    this is a HUGE turn on. HOT HOT HOT
    everybody should be open to try it. WOW

  5. still tryng

    May 23, 2015 at 12:06 am

    Help me to get her past the “stigma” of women masterbating. She is old old school even at 62.

  6. Allan

    September 7, 2015 at 8:14 pm

    A woman I knew a while back would not let me come to her apartment unless I masturbated while she watched. She’d never seen a man do it. Another time she made herself cum while she masturbated me and we both came at the same instant. Both were intense experiences.

  7. MUDASIR

    April 22, 2016 at 7:30 am

    Hi Coach,
    I did enjoy that. It’s a new tip for both of us and have got massive pleasure that night!.
    Thanks!

  8. Ankush

    May 23, 2016 at 4:17 am

    Thanks a ton dear Gabrielle.Your techniques do work.God bless you
    I ll try this with my wife asap

  9. Paresh Shah

    February 11, 2017 at 10:48 am

    Mutual masturbation does wonders for us as we seek to maximize pleasure selflessly for both of us. Oral and penetrative sex thereafter is much mòre satisfying.

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