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And the award for the best sex position goes to…

“If God had intended us to have copious amounts of dirty, immoral sex, he would have given us genitals that fit together and made sex feel amazing. Oh, wait…”

Women reveal their desert-island sex position – the one they just couldn’t live without. (Warning: Contains persuasive opinions. You may need to cancel your plans for tonight.)

Spooning

“This was introduced to me by a boyfriend – it’s a natural way to start getting sexual when you’re in bed together, as men love letting you know they’re in the mood by pressing their groin into you. I like it because it’s a loving position – there’s full body contact and it makes the sex slower and more sensual.”

Sex in this position lasts longer and makes a woman’s orgasm more intense. It’s also great for stimulating her G-spot, and while you’re penetrating her, you can play with her breasts and clitoris. It’s also great for when you’re worn out from previous sessions, but still feel up for another round!

Max it: Roll over so you’re on your back with your partner on top, then place your hand on her clitoris and work her against at and your groin simultaneously.

Doggie-style

“As a feminist, I struggled with doggie-style in my early twenties, believing it was gender oppressive. But once I developed a healthy sexual attitude and felt more comfortable in my own skin, I realized it could be incredibly pleasurable. For me, doggie-style is great to exercise non-verbal sex talk with your partner. It eliminates eye contact and encourages sexual negotiation through the thrusting of your hips and pelvis.”

Benefits include maneuverability for clitoral stimulation, and women can control the penetration with the positioning of their arms and hips – great for achieving mutual climax.”

Max it: This position is perfect for manual clitoral and breast stimulation.

Girl on top

“This is the best position for easy orgasms and it’s the only way I can come without the help of a vibrator. The first time I tried it was with a friend I was visiting at university. I’d had other sexual partners but had never climaxed. I straddled him, clamped down onto him, and came within five minutes.”

This is the go-to position for no-fuss, mind-blowing orgasm. Your partner’s clitoris makes contact with your pubic bone, so it’s great for stimulation. She controls the pace and the penetration – and while she’s pleasuring you, you can make sure her needs are met.”

Max it: Mix it up with some ‘froggie-style’: lift her knees up, while she has her feet flat on the bed, and leans on her hands for support.

Missionary

“Missionary is the one I continually come back to. It’s the perfect starter position with a new partner as it allows intense eye contact and long kisses.”

Also, it’s the starting point for coital alignment techniques (CAT): you enter her as normal, then shift yourself further up her body so her clitoris makes repeated contact with the base of your penis – giving extra stimulation. Focusing on deeper penetration maintains this contact – all the way to orgasm!”

Max it: For deeper penetration, lift her legs up onto your shoulders. This also gives you an amazing view.

Sixty-nine

“My first serious boyfriend introduced me to this position – he was older than me, and way more experienced. The first time we tried it, I felt really self-conscious sitting on top of him and was worried about smothering him. But then he grabbed my bum and pulled me onto his mouth with passion, so I stopped worrying and got busy with his bits to. And I haven’t looked back since!”

Sixty-nines are a great way to change up the oral routine and it’s a very sexy, intimate thing for people to do together. There’s something very primal about satisfying each other in that way at the same time. And, of course, you don’t just have to stick to the standard format. If you position yourselves side by side rather than on top of each other, you can keep going for longer and really get into what you’re doing, and try out new moves and methods.

Max it: As well as side by side, try this position with you on top. Prop a couple of pillows under her neck and you’re set.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Do you have a favorite go-to position? Let me know why it works for you and why you wouldn’t trade it for anything

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  1. Steve

    February 22, 2014 at 11:50 pm

    I’m kinda surprised about your girl on top comment that this is the only way you cum. From my experience and what I’ve seen corroborated in blogs etc, this position is primarily a preference of women who are stimulating the clit and the orgasm will typically be a clitoral orgasm, not vaginal. You don’t seem to make much distinction.

    Again, from my experience and what I’ve read (purchased a couple of David Shade’s products, and Jason Julius who both helped me {and even more the women I’ve dated} tremendously), most women are clitorally dependent, and it’s a far fewer number who have vaginal orgasms. My experience is the vaginal orgasms are far more intense. I’ve yet to induce squirting. I just recently introduced a woman in her 40’s to her G spot … and she was quite grateful. Haven’t yet gotten results from the deep spot, or A spot as I’ve heard it called. I’m still a young student at 52 ;-). Divorce does instill the desire to learn.

    I’ve only dated one woman who was multi orgasmic from her clit, and that only happened after I was much more consistent giving her vaginal orgasms. All woman who’ve had vaginal orgasms with me have unanimously favored it over clitoral. Of course, they’s also all likely have me hanged if suggested eradicating clitoral over vaginal orgasms.

    Thoughts?

  2. Kyaw Kyaw Thet.

    February 23, 2014 at 11:07 pm

    Thank you so much for your weekly emails. I like your so much for your article My lover and I make sexual connection as your advice. Especially, your oral sex method is more good for Myanmar. Most of the Myanmar girls afraid to make oral sex.But try for first. Every Myanmar girls like oral sex. Now,almost Myanmar girls like really oral sex. You are professor for every lovers. I am very luck to know with you.Thank you so much again.

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