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7 Naughty Fingering Tricks

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7 Naughty Fingering Tricks

For women, being fingered by a partner who knows what they are doing can be one of the most pleasurable parts of sex. While technically known as manual stimulation or digital penetration, fingering is about more than just sticking your finger in a vagina. Aside from oral sex, stimulating a woman with your fingers is one of the best ways to give her intense orgasms. It is a crucial part of foreplay as it helps get her physically and emotionally ready for intercourse.

However, for many men, it seems the female vulva is one big mystery. What are the different parts? What do they do and should I touch them? When it comes to fingering techniques, they are often all thumbs.

Men have no fear: the answers are here!

Here are some things to keep in mind to give your woman ultimate pleasure through fingering techniques that are never fail:

– First, get to know her lady parts. Men seem to know about the vagina, (although the G-Spot still has many mystified) and think they know a lot about the clitoris but there is more down there waiting for touch that makes them tremble.

– Fingering a woman is about more than sticking your finger or fingers in her vagina and just moving them around. You are not trying to dig your way to China and it is not a race.

– Women are more than their vagina’s and as such receive pleasure through more than having their vagina fingered. An awesome fact about a woman’s lady parts is that it feels good to have them ALL touched. Do you really want to impress your partner? Then go for more than her clitoris and vagina. Touch her whole vulva. Use your fingers to caress her labia gently and slowly to help her build her arousal.

– It’s not a taint on a woman. You know that area behind a guy’s testicles but before his anus? Often referred to as the “taint”? Most men love to have the taint touched. Women have an area between the vagina and anus too and men should get to know it because a lot of women get very hot when it is stroked.

– While you are back there, consider the back door. In all seriousness many women get off on anal stimulation. This is something that needs to be taken slowly. Use plenty of water based lubricant and never go from anus to vagina without washing your hands. The last thing you want to do is transfer bacteria that are in the anal area to the vagina. Instead of an orgasm you could leave your partner with a vaginal infection. In fact, for any type of fingering make sure your hands are clean and your nails are trimmed. Jagged edges are not a vulva’s friend. For anal play it might be a good idea to start with a small finger like your pinky and take your cues from her about how deep, how fast or how intense to get.

– Pay attention to the clitoris. Women have mind blowing orgasms from the right kind of clitoral stimulation. Remember the clitoris is usually snug in its clitoral hood and as a woman becomes more aroused the hood pulls back much like a man’s foreskin. Also similar to the penis, when aroused, the clitoris becomes engorged with blood and erect making it very sensitive to touch. Try making circular, up and down and side to side motions with your finger. Use a dab of lube on your fingertip at first to help ensure things are smooth. Start slow and gradually get faster. Many men seem to think the clitoris is like a pencil eraser and use the “rub out” technique like they are trying to erase something on their finger. That just doesn’t do it.

– Go for the Gold. Of course the gold is the G-Spot. The holy grail of fingering. The elusive spot that when found usually means you have to peel a woman off the ceiling. Insert your finger in the vagina about 1/3 of the way up. Slowly move your finger like you are making a “come here” (no pun intended) gesture. As you do this, move your finger up higher in the vagina. The G-Spot is usually located between the top of the first 1/3 and 2/3 of the vagina on the “roof” of the vagina. She will be able to tell you when you hit it. Then it is just a matter of finding out how she likes her G-Spot to be touched. This calls for simple experimentation. The good news is that means lots of sexual activity. Try altering the amount of pressure and speed with which you make the “come here” gesture.

The thing you don’t want to do is just move your finger in and out of the vagina like a penis. Remember, women usually do not orgasm from intercourse so trying to reproduce it with our finger doesn’t really make an impact.

As with anything that has to do with sex, the key is communication. Ask your partner what feels good and take direction with an open mind. Follow these simple tips and soon your fingers will be doing the walking.

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