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Kissing that makes sex hotter

“I think people spend too much time staring into screens and not enough time drinking wine, tongue kissing and dancing under the moon” – Rachel Wolchin

Kissing is often considered a means to an end. It’s how many couples kick off their sack sessions, but as soon as things start heating up, making out usually falls by the wayside. Some people think that sex is so full of pleasure on its own that kissing isn’t important. And that’s a damn shame because locking lips throughout the sexual experience (and not just at the very beginning of getting busy) can make the pleasure skyrocket considerably. There are tons of nerve endings in your lips that stimulate desire. Smooching before, during and after intercourse can be extremely arousing and satisfying. However, not all puckers are created equal. The trick is knowing what mouth-to-mouth moves intensify each stage of sex. Luckily, I’ve gone ahead and mapped it out for you. Try these tips to kiss your way to total bliss.

Foreplay: Tease her with soft pecks 

Just as a runner needs to stretch before a race, your body requires an equally strategic warm-up before launching into full-throttle passion. You don’t want to come on too strong with your lips or you might accelerate her excitement too quickly. Instead, ease her into the pleasure zone, gradually increasing her arousal. The slower the buildup, the bigger the bang.

Give her little pecks all over her face – everywhere except the lips. As her excitement grows, trace the outline of her mouth with the tip of your tongue. She’ll be aching to envelop you with her mouth, but don’t let her do it… yet.

Move on to open-mouth puckers, but no tongue allowed. If she tries to French you, pull away from her for a minute, then return to kissing. The point is to be playful and work her into a desire-filled frenzy by not giving her exactly what she wants.

Add some playfulness into the mix by gently sucking and lightly nibbling on her lower lip every now and then. It will feel so good, she’ll instinctively return the favor.

During the act: Bring it to the boiling point

Once you are both fired up, coy smooches just aren’t going to cut it. This is the perfect time to engage each other’s mouths, no tongues barred. Passionate kisses elevate your blood pressure and cause your heart to beat faster, getting you more excited and making it easier for your partner to reach orgasm. Here’s how to stoke the flame.

Strip down and have her straddle you while you’re sitting on a chair. As you focus on thrusting, take her tongue into your mouth and very lightly suck on it so your lip action mimics the rhythm of your hips.

Vary the intensity and depth of the lip-locks you lay on your bedmate. Give her long, soulful French kisses for a couple of minutes, then surprise her by keeping your lips open and pressing them against hers – hard – like you want to devour her whole. Maintain the back and forth so she can’t guess what’s coming when. Not knowing what you’re going to do next will amp up her excitement even more.

You should let her know the passionate pressure is quickly building up inside you by switching up your moves and trying something even more erotic. Unlock your lips periodically, and swirl your tongue around hers in a circular motion as if you were licking an ice-cream cone. She will love that you’re in control and essentially taking possession of her entire mouth.

The big O: Let your inner animal loose

By the time you’re about to climax, give in to your passionate fervor, and let yourself go absolutely wild. Just follow your body’s cravings. Being mouth to mouth as you peak can make for a much stronger, more intense orgasm because it’s such a carnal act – your senses of taste and smell and touch are all converging at once. It’s like you’re on sensual overload.

Softly suck on each other’s necks just as you’re about to reach your peak. The pressure of your lips against her skin will amplify the buildup you’ve been feeling inside and create an even more powerful need for that heavenly release.

Run your tongue back and forth along the roof of her mouth. This is a place that rarely gets any attention; the more unique the sensation, the more exciting it is for her.

Let her know how hungry you are for her by gently biting her back and shoulders, spots on her body that can take a little roughhousing. Place the skin lightly between your teeth and pull; then run your tongue around the area and kiss it.

Hot embraces,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Fun fact! Men initiate open-mouth kissing to transfer libido-boosting testosterone to their partner. See, kissing is great! For more tips on how to intensify your carnal adventures, click this link.

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6 Comments

6 Comments

  1. TOSH

    July 22, 2016 at 10:51 pm

    SEX & SEXING MAKES LIFE WORTH LIVING.
    HAVE SEX REGULARLY & BE HAPPY
    THIS APPLIES TO BOTH FEMALE & MALE
    ENJOY LIFE IS SHORT.

  2. paul

    July 22, 2016 at 11:22 pm

    I really appreciate and enjoy the creativity of your articles. my wife is very sexual, I love her dearly and I want to help us be more intimate in our sexual endeavours with the help and guidance of you and your staff. thank you for a spicy dialogue on life and love. 🙂

  3. JOAOZINHO MARTINS

    July 23, 2016 at 6:44 am

    Hi Gabrielle;
    I wonder how you have so much sexy info to share. Is all that info. based on your personal experience with love life? I mean have you actually practiced it? And, is there any way to learn more of the same through direct contact with you? i mean are you willing to teach it all through direct demonstration with your clients? If so, I would like to know and how much you charge, etc. Thanks. JM

  4. Cherri Slicer

    July 23, 2016 at 6:45 pm

    Hi Gabrielle,

    Kissing is good enough to incite her passion. But, the standing lips are what more enticing for kisses. The pink pecker hiding between two large lips actually peaks out and starts pulsating the moment your lips are Mons. Labias are so sweet, they get swollen and as far as the pink clitty, it virtually invites the mouth on it and then starts dancing. The little orifice below starts oozing sweet juices – good for sucking. While doing so, how can we forget those two globes with two peaking nipples inviting to kiss and suck. One should mature to kiss, suck and play in the right places to make nights longer and the `Master’ to twitch and yell for his nook to rest in and do his up and down movements inside the cave till he gushes out his creamy white liquid which not only fills the Vagi but the mouth as well. There after the second ride when you really batter the Orifice of the Venus is simply nerve raking. Oh! Saturdays! Waiting to see the two globes and the mound behind new Satins (varying styles every Saturday – of course pocket holes out but then the pleasure compensates much more). Heavenly. Gabrielle, your tution adds flavour to these wonderful togetherness. Sometimes, relaxing with fingers in the Orifice while her hands are moving up and down her `Master’ brings the togetherness much closer. One should be good in art of giving and taking pleasure to enjoy life!

  5. Bakari Kisoma

    July 23, 2016 at 10:14 pm

    Excellent. I am putting into practice. I will give you feed back.

  6. Richard Webb

    February 18, 2017 at 12:37 pm

    Gabrielle, hi. I would simply like to say that your little essay on the importance of kissing, and some great techniques for it, is one of the best, most informative and helpful I’ve ever read on the subject of foreplay. I have always been a big fan of lip service to a lady and have found simple “making out” to be lots of fun and usually extremely productive. I would also like to compliment you on your clear and concise writing style. Well written “honey.” Keep ’em coming,(pun not intended.) Richard Webb, Infamous Novelist.

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