Think her breasts are just fun bags for you? Think again…
Nipple play before and during sex can enhance arousal, finds a study from the Journal of Sexual Medicine. The effect? The potential for a more intense climax. More shocking> some women have reported having orgasms from breast play alone! But what’s behind these boobgasms? Mostly, her brain. Nipple stimulation activates the same part of the sensory cortex as both clitoral and vaginal stimulation do. In plain-speak: rubbing her headlights ignites her nogging’s feel-good centre. And when her upper and lower parts are simultaneously engaged, it can lead to a mind-blowing release.
Here, some guidance for getting your girl’s girls in on all the awesome erogenous action. No tatas left behind…
Touching her tatas
Licking, flicking and tweaking… there’s no wrong turn on the road toward nipple euphoria. Along the way, be sure to communicate and practice with your partner to figure out what makes her happy. For the maximum chance at achieving the elusive boobgasm, I suggest treating the nipple like a clitoris. Avoid going right for it. Sometimes, less is more. Start by slowly tracing your fingers around her side boob and armpit area, then go for her areolae, inching ever closer to the centre. If her nips get hard or feel tingly, your moves are working. Cup her breasts and use your fingers to gently squeeze her nipples, or lay the tips with a bit of tongue before gently kissing and sucking on them. Ah, bliss. Also, like clitoral touching, it is better to use moisture as opposed to “dry rubbing” the nipple. Blowing a steam of breath onto a wet nipple can also be very thrilling and can cause clitoral contractions.
Some more advanced experimentation can prompt an even more explosive boob orgasm. Try circling her nips with a small vibrator, a warming lubricant, ice-cubes, or – for an extreme adventure – nipple clamps. But only do this once she is fully aroused – erect nipples can tolerate more stimulation. Mixing up pressure and how you’re handling the breast and nipple will create waves of pleasure… hopefully leading to a memorable grand finale. That being said, don’t force it. If her girls are feeling tender, sore or aching for any reason, stimulating them is more likely to prompt an ouch than an orgasm. So respect her twins by letting them act the part of passive bystanders until they’re ready to come and join the party again.
How do you know it’s working
When blood flows to a specific area of the body during sexual activity, the result is the color of this body part becomes a darker shade of pink and red than it normally does. This phenomenon even applies to lips, which is a way a lot of people find bright red lipstick to be so attractive. This same principle applies to both male and female genitalia. And nipples are no exception to this rule. When stimulated, the nipples take on a darker, redder shade. This color change can be a visual clue for you when you are on the quest for a boobgasm, because it indicated that she is receiving the right amount of touching.
Why do you have nips
You don’t feed babies, so why do your nipples exist? Because that’s how the male embryo develops, but nipples can also enhance your orgasm, since they trigger the same zone in your brain as stimulating your penis does. That’s the theory. In reality, only 52 percent of dudes have “arousable” nipples, according to studies. Wondering if you’re among that group? Ask your partner to try a small rub with her thumb and forefinger, applying slight pressure then licking all over. If you moan, yep, she’s found a spot.
P.S. For more exciting tips and tricks on how to invite the breasts to the best carnal experience ever, check out my program on the matter – Light Her Up! Mastering the 6 Layers of the Female Body.