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Achieve Orgasm In The Missionary Position

“Sex is emotion in motion.” – Mae West

The missionary position is one of the most elementary positions out there – in fact, it’s probably the first position you tried (I know it was mine! Hee hee!). Even though it’s the most basic of sexual configurations, there are a lot of women who complain that they don’t reach orgasm – in fact, according to a recent study, only 25 percent of women are consistently orgasmic in man-on-top sex, no matter what size the penis nor how vigorous or prolonged the intercourse.

While we women shouldn’t expect to reach orgasm every single time we has sex, it’s obviously a huge perk if we can. And if you’re the type of couple who often resorts to the standard missionary position and you want to up the ooh and ahh factor behind closed doors, take my advice below and help your partner achieve orgasm in the missionary position.

Stimulate at the same time
As mentioned, women often don’t have an orgasm while engaging in missionary sex because this position doesn’t allow for direct clitoral stimulation. So, if you want to get your girl all revved up, use your hand, fingers or a sex toy to play with her clitoris. Or, guide her hand down there. Watching her please herself will be a huge turn-on for you as well (I love touching myself during intercourse – it feels great for me and it drives the guy absolutely wild!).

Masturbate
Many women find that by masturbating they can reach orgasm quicker and more frequently, so encourage your partner to engage in some self-play. In doing so, she’ll become more comfortable with her sexual responsiveness. Masturbation should be a healthy part of your sex life, an activity you and your other half should engage in regularly (and if you’re a really good boy, maybe she’ll let you watch while she fondles herself).

Foreplay
After being in a long-term relationship, it’s easy for foreplay to fall to the wayside (a biiiiig no-no!). But for a woman, foreplay is an important part of achieving orgasm – we need to feel intimate and connected to a person, and foreplay is the best way to get there. So never skip this vital step. If you’re going to resort to the tried-and-true missionary position, perform oral sex on her first or take you time to ensure she’s really wet before penetrating her. It will definitely help her climax.

CAT
I read about CAT (coital alignment technique) several years ago and have always been a huge fan. CAT is basically when a man aligns himself differently during missionary – instead of lying directly on top of the woman, the man shifts himself forward so that his chest is closer to one of her shoulders. This “tilted” angle will help the penis make more direct contact with the clitoris, and will undoubtedly make her squeal in delight.

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24 Comments

  1. keith

    November 12, 2010 at 1:45 am

    Very informative. I have learned a great deal from you advice. One thing would be better though, if you could include some pictures in your reports. Thanks again!

  2. amiboo

    November 12, 2010 at 2:43 am

    As a woman I strongly disagree that women should not expect to have an orgasm every time we have sex. I absolutely DO expect an orgasm every time!!! The guy expects to orgasm every time, why shouldn’t the woman?

    As you have said many times, women do not have that many orgasms from penetration without clitoral stimulation. Soooo, that just means that the man needs to ensure that his woman gets that clitoral stimulation. There are a few ways to make sure that happens.

    1- Oral is a wonderful solution
    2- My man is a master at fingering
    3- Masturbation, as you say – guys love to watch
    4- Use a small vibrator on her clit during intercourse.
    5- CAT positioning seems to work well for some and not others.

    With all of these options there is no reason for every single woman to have an orgasm every single time they have sex. My man always makes sure I have mine before he has his and I make sure that he knows what an amazing lover he is.

  3. edward

    November 12, 2010 at 3:11 am

    ty so much your info has been very good for me an the one im with we both ty

  4. james

    November 12, 2010 at 3:44 am

    every time i just make sure , my gal have good stimulation at her pussy by licking it..while i licking it,, i’ll rub her annus spot , and slowly tryin to insert my finger and her feel pleasure havin both type stimulation together at the same time.. she’ll scream once she could’n take the overwhelming pleasure..
    i’ll make sure not to stop there, bit to continue to the licking from her pussy to annus up and down.. and try to insert my tongue inside annus.. then lick her breast .. jus bite and lick plus suck her nipples. and make her become wild with so much of pleasure ..using my finger to give pleasure on her G-spot also part of my daily things when we’re involve in sex activities.. i jus don’t give much attention to my o then hers.. i’ll make sure she reach her big O twice before my make muself come… enjoy seeing her yearning for my little john.. sometimes she’ll just beg ..pls pls fuck me.. and when i started to fuck.. she’ll scream harder and harder…and she ‘ll pull me in so that she’ll moer and deeper pleasure…

  5. dls

    November 12, 2010 at 4:00 am

    i haven,t word to comment, i only can say that it,s absolutely right

  6. Buzz

    November 12, 2010 at 5:16 am

    Guys, just be careful not to lick the anus and go directly back to her vagina or mouth. You might be lucky a few times, but there is a high risk of her getting a wicked infection – especially if you insert anything into her anus and go to the vagina with the same object (finger or toy).

  7. Myself

    November 12, 2010 at 5:50 am

    Gabriel Moore, I very much like your e mails and all these information.you are wonderful.

    James: your comment make me wet.
    Keep up the good job.

  8. essesk

    November 12, 2010 at 11:00 am

    very good information provided and the discussion comments also educative for better sex

  9. Felix

    November 12, 2010 at 12:57 pm

    i love the new layout on the site. keep up the good work, Gabrielle!

  10. woody

    November 12, 2010 at 1:33 pm

    I agree with Amiboo. I always make sure my wife has an orgasm first during forplay before I. I think Gabriella meant that you are not going to have an orgasm in the missionary position every time. Not that you are not expeted to orgasm everytime you make love.

  11. Roberto

    November 12, 2010 at 1:43 pm

    Thanks, Gabrielle, for defining this type of position to achieve a clitoral orgasm.

  12. simon

    November 12, 2010 at 2:16 pm

    missionary position is good

  13. eli.eli

    November 12, 2010 at 2:54 pm

    thanks gab…..
    this type of possition most women never reach their climate but i know that they can touch themself during the hottime ya.

  14. unhappy

    November 13, 2010 at 1:03 pm

    Im 31 and to date ive never had an orgasm it makes me very unhappy 🙁

  15. Rogerio

    November 13, 2010 at 2:37 pm

    thank you a lot. You have helped me a a lot with all your e-mails. But until now My girlfriend can’t have a orgasm, she says that she really feels something differente, as though she wanted to urinate. That why the first time I tried she runned to the bathroom because she thought that she will wet herself. When I was fingering her, everything you told me happens. Her become tight and her clitoris become bigger but she still can’t reach an orgasm. Please help me here. Eventhough she told that it is ok if she doesn’t reach one but I still believe on it.
    I will wait for your feedback.

  16. daniel mannocchi

    November 13, 2010 at 5:07 pm

    all your tips are great and very helpful. however my biggest problem is getting my wife to incorperate your techinques during our love meking . any suggestions on how to get her to loosen up and get alittle freaky .

  17. pravinsingh

    November 14, 2010 at 3:00 am

    Gabby.u r technics are great and useful my partner says my toung is very sweet in vagina and on clitory she likes every time and at every session of mating

  18. lanaibeach

    November 15, 2010 at 1:56 am

    The missionary
    Oh the homage to a God
    The face to face
    The feeling of erotic great

    You see the expression
    The way one likes to feel
    The contact of erotic embrace
    With the breasts and nipples flow

    The easy movements
    Both hands can foreplay
    The erotic intrusions
    Each can play…

    Though it is foreplay
    Nobody should forget
    You say it right
    One shouldn’t forget the basic

    Sex is heaven
    If one can imagine
    One can see God face smiling
    God is Great in the Creation

    15/11/10 9.56am

  19. nnamdi

    November 15, 2010 at 8:58 am

    how do u seduce a girl

  20. MT Guy

    November 15, 2010 at 8:05 pm

    Here’s some thoughts on Angle of penetration:

    1. G-spot location in the inner vaginal walls would indicate that a different angle of penetration would be HIGHLY beneficial to female stimulation. With her on her back on the edge of the bed, trying entering her from a standing position and thrust so that your penis stimulates the ‘top’ of her vaginal cavity.

    2. You can use pillows to lift her pelvis into position on top of the bed, if you prefer.

    Either of these techniques puts the head of your penis in direct contact with her G-spot and should provide a vaginal orgasm of some strength and high enjoyment level for your lady.

    Also these positions allow for you to massage her clitoris with your fingers while you stroke with your penis. Done sensitively while gauging her response, making sure your angle of entry is optimal will result in a very grateful female partner.

  21. Charles

    November 17, 2010 at 10:34 pm

    Thanks the tips again. The thing with self clit masterbation, most women do it so their partner can stop having sex with them because their not climaxing, and their so bored….
    But actually doing it, and stating that your going to do it with your partner, or advice, seams an awesome way to go about the whole thing.
    Another good way I found out by beating around the bush like we all do xD
    Is slitlty tilting and aiming your penis upward to hit the top wall. Obviously you don’t have an extra eye on your bell end but probably most of the time you could be hitting the A-spot now and again. Try and do with it with lots of pressure, because the top wall like good hard pressure. Don’t be afraid your being to rough, the vagina throws babies out of it your penis wont do any harm.

  22. shyguy

    November 18, 2010 at 5:17 pm

    what do you mean by “Masturbation should be a healthy part of your sex life”

  23. Daniel

    December 17, 2010 at 4:11 pm

    great post, thanks for sharing

  24. cialis

    February 4, 2011 at 11:13 am

    Your website is really very informative. Keep going that way.

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