“There are only two guidelines in good sex, don’t do anything you don’t really enjoy and find out what are your partner’s needs and don’t balk them if you can help it.” – Alex Comfort
Treating her to these unexpected thrills will endure that things never get stale between the sheets. Women are delighted anytime they get to have sex. But they’re truly blown away when you throw a little unexpected twist into the mix – which is not to say that you need to be crazy. Just try one of these subtle suggestions to have the desired effect.
Get frisky before freshening up
When you return home from a long day at the office, a workout or a rigorous bout of five-o-clock beer with the guys at work, your inclination is to clean up and then spend some quiet moments in front of the TV, to be able to function afterwards at the right parameters. We know that can take anywhere from 15 minutes to, well, the end of that football match you’ve been dying to see all day. And while women love it when you smell nice and you’re quiet in your little manly comfort zone, sometimes they just don’t want to wait to pounce. “One weekend, my boyfriend went on a really tough hike with his friends, and he was dead tired by the time he returned home. I assumed he’d hop right into the shower, but instead, he grabbed me and headed for the bedroom. Let’s just say, I got my fair share of exercise as well,” says Nina.
Be her steamy alarm clock
Every girl fantasizes about being woken up by a man who’s already gotten the action started. Not only does it feel extra naughty, but there’s also a practical element to early a.m. sex – you’re ready to do it since the first second you open your eyes. “The coolest thing my partner ever did was wake me up one Sunday morning by going down. I was half-awake at first and not sure if it was real. But I soon realized that what was happening was better than any dream”, says Carla.
Stay semi-clothed
Nakedness is wonderful. But when you occasionally leave on an article of clothing during sex, it tells a woman you can’t wait another second to have her… and that’s way hot. “My boyfriend loves quickies, and whenever they happen, he usually leaves something on”, says Jessie. So hike up your t-shirt or just yank aside your boxers – trust me, she won’t mind having to do a little maneuvering.
Turn on the lights
To understand why women love it when a man leaves the lights on during the deed, just listen to Bonnie: “This guy who I’d thought was very conservative threw me a curveball when he flipped on the lights. I loved seeing his body, but the best part was wondering what unpredictable thing he might do next.” Most guys, just like women, aren’t psyched about giving women the full, well-lit view. So when we encounter one, it’s a tantalizing shock. Plus, it makes us feel like our glorious nakedness turns you on as well.
Have a great week,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. It’s great to surprise her with a naughty fetish, but a vagina-hair plucking fetish is not a surprise she’ll welcome. For more steamy secrets of the female orgasm, check out my video program on the subject – Her Secret Hot Spots.
