Who says erotic massage has to be limited to one’s back? Or just touching and kneading? There are plenty of erogenous zones that are perfect for a sensuous, sexy massage. There are diverse arrays of body parts where both women and men get aroused and you don’t have to use solely your hands. Ever wonder what those spots are? Well today is your lucky day.
First off make sure your nails are clean and not jagged. Nothing will ruin a massage quicker than an even nail. Heat up some edible massage oil so you can not only rub and touch, but lick as well. Once you have your partner stripped down so their completely naked, you’re ready to begin. Here are some of the top erogenous zones for an erotic massage.
1. Behind the Knees
Behind the knees? Yes really. It sounds unusual, but this almost never touched spot is a hot bed for sensitivity precisely because it’s always ignored. Softly graze your partners’ knees with your fingers letting them feel slightly tickled. Move onto to gently licking or nibbling on the back of the knees to really excite your partner and get them going. After all there are a ton of nerves to titillate in this spot! Just be careful; the skin is thinner here and not used to touch so don’t bite or nibble too hard.
2. The Rear End
This is almost a no-brainer, but it’s worth saying most people love a little ass action. Playing with your lover’s butt can involve spanking, squeezing, licking, and kneading. Since the skin is thicker you can get a little rougher here, slapping and applying more pressure than you would on other body parts.
3. The Neck and Ears
Just putting your hand on the back of your partner’s neck can be enough to get them titillated. If their hair is long, lift it up and put your mouth on their neck. While you’re in the general vicinity, lick and blow on their ears until you have them moaning for more. Use your fingers to trace your fingers down the spine and back up. Then cup your hands and squeeze the back of the neck so that your fingertips touch the ears. And of course make sure to rub the knots out of their necks easing the tension and allowing them to relax for a night of lovin’.
Even if you don’t have a foot fetish by any stretch of the imagination you can enjoy giving or receiving a sensuous foot massage. As long as the feet are clean of course! After a long day, there can be nothing more relaxing than having your feet rubbed. Both women and men enjoy a foot rub or having their toes sucked. The feet are also prone to tickling so keep that in mind when you’re fondling their tootsies. People either love or hate to be tickled, so if you’ve got a hater on your hands don’t keep tickling.
We all know that women’s’ breasts are very sensitive, but did you know men enjoy a little nipple tweaking too? Start off by slowly and gently by circling the nipples along the outer edges. Lick them and blow on them creating a back and forth sensation of hot and cold. Nipples are major erogenous zones on both sexes. When it comes to women, there’s nothing like sucking on her breasts to get her headlights hard.
6. Inner Thighs
The thighs often get overlooked when it comes to erotic massages because it doesn’t seem like there’s much feeling down there. But the sweet creamy thighs are actually mucho sensitive when it comes to touching, licking, and stroking. Besides the fact that there are many nerve endings, the thighs proximity to the genital will make your partner quiver with excitement. Knead them gently as you work your way up to center stage; the genitals.
7. The Vulva
Everyone loves being caressed down below. With women you can start off slow by stroking her lips with your fingers. Then you can move on to rubbing her clitoris until she gets squirmy and aroused. For men, very carefully massage the oft-neglected family jewels and the perineum. The trick is to take it slow! If you go straight for the gold, you’ll lose the ability to slowly build arousal in such a sensitive spot.
As you can see when it comes to sexy erogenous zones the options are practically endless! Stay open-minded and creative and you may just find your own new erogenous zone.