Honey, if you haven’t already checked out the first part of this article then I suggest you click over to it immediately! Lots of guys think they can skip certain steps and take the easy way when it comes to pleasing a woman, but if you want to do it right then you’ll pay attention to the details and put in 100%. Believe me, you’ll be thankful that you when you’re reaping the benefits of the results.
Erotic massage is an amazing form of foreplay that will not only get your partner relaxed and feeling amazing, but it will slowly and sensually drive her wild with desire. Once you have everything prepared as I instructed in the first article, you’re ready to move on to the fun, “interactive” part.
- She should be naked. Obviously, right? Well, you should be too. There will be a lot of skin to skin contact as the massage goes on. She should be facing down to begin with and cover her with a sheet, just like in a real massage situation. Believe it or not, this little gesture will also help to build up her desire. Remember, it’s all about the slow build up.
- Put some massage oil in your hands and rub them together to make sure it’s warm enough. Don’t be afraid to use a good amount of oil. You want your hands to slide easily over her body.
- Start on her shoulders, neck and arms. Be careful with the amount of pressure you use. Don’t use too much. She’s not a man and this isn’t a deep tissue sports massage, but on the other hand you want the massage to make an impact. Since everyone is different in their preferences, your best bet is to ask. Say something like, “is this amount of pressure okay?” “do you want me to go harder or softer?” Use your whole hand when massaging her to avoid tickling or putting uncomfortable pressure on a sore spot. Go slowly and rhythmically over her neck, shoulders and up and down her arms. Don’t break contact and don’t go too fast.
- Slowly lower the sheet down to just above her butt, maybe even revealing a little bit of it. Begin to make your strokes longer and deeper, don’t be afraid to allow other parts of your body make contact with hers as you work, but make sure that you don’t make it about you. In other words, it’s sexy if she feels your rock hard erection and your chest pressing up against her butt as your stroking her, but don’t turn it into a dry humping session. Give her a taste of that sensation and then move on. Apart from your hands massaging, your skin should be brushing against her suggestively, not pounding away.
- Before moving any lower, take some time with some of my favorite erogenous zones, the neck, ears, and back and kiss and lick your way around sensually. Run your hands along the sides of her breasts as you kiss and lick the back and side of her neck. Then slowly make your way down.
- Now you’re ready to continue to lower that pesky sheet. In fact, toss it off altogether. Make sure you still have plenty of oil on your hands and on her body. Begin to work your hands down lower and lower, slowly kneading her butt and slipping your fingers down ever so close to her vulva, but not quite there. This is teasing at it’s finest and it will drive her crazy. Slowly open her legs enough so that you can have access to massage her inner thighs. You can slowly sweep your hands up her thighs, just slightly making contact with her vulva each time, but not giving it too much attention. Believe me, that kind of teasing will get her 100 times hotter than going straight in for it.
- Now it’s time for the other side. Have her flip over, which will give you access to her stomach and breasts. Get some more oil heated up on your hands and begin up on her shoulders and the part of her chest just above her breasts. Make her wait a little bit for it, then make your way down to massage her breasts and nipples. Linger there for a little while and then move on.
- Don’t forget that you can massage with your mouth as well as your hands. Now that you have her facing up you can kiss her all over and lick her from her nipples all the way down to her inner thighs. Avoid the vulva though, you’re still building up that sexual tension. Repeat the same teasing thigh massage you did when she was facing down, only this time allow your hand to graze over her vulva and clit each time you massage upward.
- That last trick will definitely lead to something more. Let it. Begin slowly exploring her vulva and clitoris with each stroke. Maybe it’s time to get your mouth involved here, or maybe you’re ready to explode as well and want to get in on the action. Now it’s your choice where to take it next, but just because the massage is over doesn’t mean you should change up the vibe or the pace. Keep it slow and sensual until she shows you she wants otherwise.
Well, that was fun! I promise you, coming from a woman’s perspective, this sounds nothing short of amazing. Try it tonight guys! And let me know how it went in the comments section.