Hey there lover boy and welcome back to my top sexy tips ideas! Today I want to show you some fun ways to flirt and have sex, and also introduce you to the sacral nerve.
- Stimulate the sacral nerve
There are a cluster of nerves at the bottom of the spine called the sacral nerves that are connected to the clitoris and aid in orgasm. In fact, stimulation of this area with electrodes can even trigger orgasm in legally dead patients. Wow! Doctors today are testing implants in this area to help women who can’t orgasm to achieve it. Personally, if I had a dial connected to my orgasm, I’d have that thing on max all the time and would never get out of bed! But I regress…
You don’t have to put an implant or electrodes in her spine though to stimulate her sacral nerves. You can get her to lie on her belly and give her a lower back and butt massage. The hot spot to touch is on the lower hip, that sweet indentation between a butt check and the upper thigh, where the thigh joins at the hip. Simply pressing on that area (gently) with your finger tips in a circular motion or the palm of your hand can stimulate the area. Also, karate chops, if done gently, can also cause arousal. So, use this trigger to get her orgasmic even before you have sex.
- Seduce her with your eyes
What’s that saying, “the eyes are the gateway to the soul”? Well, using your eyes to seduce her can also be the gateway to sex.
Making eye contact with your lover, and devouring them with your eyes by looking them up and down with a seductive smile, can really start the sparks flying. Use your eyes to seduce her when you get closer, gazing deeply into her eyes as you slow dance, looking into her eyes as you kiss. This is a very intimate act, and will let her know you desire her, as well as turn her on and making her melt.
Eye gazing (or soul gazing) is a Tantric technique that deepens intimacy and awakens sexual energy between lovers. Studies show that unbroken eye gazing, even between strangers, can increase feelings of passionate love for each other. Eye gazing releases the chemical phenylethylamine that speeds up attraction. And, when you look at someone you are in love with, your pupils actually enlarge, which makes your eyes even more sexually alluring to your partner.
Try it and see!
- Strip poker
Okay, this is a bit silly, but games can be fun. I recommend trying this when you have had a drink or two and you are both more sexually “lubricated”.
Stripping in front of your partner can be very erotically stimulating, because the lights are on and you can see everything. Plus being “forced” to remove your clothes for a game has added excitement.
There are many variations on this game (just Google it), but using chips for betting and adding foreplay rules to it increases they ante.
- Sex at a party
Have you ever felt so hot and horny for each other, that you are at a party, eyeing each other up an down and you just can’t wait to get home and get it on?
There is nothing a hot as sneaking into the bathroom for a hot and heavy quickie, trying to muffle the sounds of sex, while people bang on the door for you to get out.
Well, works for me!
- Play “May I”
What is “May I”? This is kind of like the game you played as a kid, called “Mother, May I”, but is an updated, adult version for sexy play.
Basically, it’s the same, except you ask your partner “May I” before every seductive act you do on them, starting with undressing them, to foreplay, to sex.
Why do it? Well, asking permission is important, especially when it comes to acts of sex. Plus, if your partner is not into a certain thing, they can say, “No, but I’d like you to do this instead…” And, this helps you learn to know what they like and what turns them on. Plus, its fun!
Okay, lover boy. Lots of sexy ideas for you today that you can practise at home. Don’t forget to do your homework, now!
Until next time, stay sexy!
Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
PS. Should you like to learn more about erotic massage tips and techniques, I recommend you check out my program Flesh on Flesh. Discover how to rub and caress your woman’s body in every way to get her swooning, soaking, and orgasming with delight!
