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My anal sex story

Hi boys,

I have some a little different planned for today’s article. A female friend of mine recently had anal sex with her long term partner for the first time. She had her doubts going into it, but eventually decided that she wanted to give it a try, thinking that if she didn’t like it she would never have to do it again. I thought that sharing her story with you all, my dear readers, would help and be informative couples in a similar situation. And it’s also pretty hot! Want to hear her story? Here goes…

My Anal Sex Story

It’s true, I was hesitant about anal sex before trying it. My husband had been wanting to try it for years, and although we have a pretty exciting sex life most of the time, I wasn’t totally sure about opening up the door to anal. I couldn’t imagine myself liking it and I was worried about how clean it would be. I didn’t know if I wanted my husband to see me like that and maybe be a little grossed out by me. After all these years I still want to be sexy to him, of course! But after talking to a handful of girlfriends who had good experiences, I thought, what the hell!

Based on a lot of Gabrielle Moore’s advice we knew I would need to be really turned on in order for it to work, so my husband started by doing something he knows I love and is a sure fire way to get me super excited. He started with a sensual massage. I laid down naked on the bed, face down. He was also naked straddling me in order to rub my back. Just feeling his warm skin against mine was enough to start getting me going. He used my favorite massage oil that has a little bit of scent to it, which makes it really amazing. As he rubbed my neck, back, and shoulders I began to relax, which was important since I was still feeling pretty nervous about the whole thing! As he massaged me he leaned over my body so that his skin rubbed against mine and I could feel his hard penis sweeping over my body as he worked on my back. That’s a big turn on for me. He then started licking and kissing my back, shoulders and neck, while he reached around and massaged my breasts. I don’t know what it is, but I LOVE how that feels.

He then start licking and kissing his way down to my lower back and butt. He lifted my hips a bit so that my butt stuck up in the air. This gave him access to my vulva and it open up my butt cheeks and lips a bit. He then started going down on me from behind, while he kneaded and massaged my butt. Just a little while of that and I was so wet and excited. Once he could tell that I was really turned on he grabbed our bottle of lube and squirted some on my butt crack which trickled its way down. He began slowly prodding my anus with his forefinger. At that point I knew we were going for it so I started to feel a little nervous again, but he went so slowly and gently with his fingers that I was relaxed in no time and starting to really enjoy the sensations. He played around and fingered my ass for a little bit, while lightly massaging my clit with his fingers. I was ready to cum right then and there, to be honest. It felt really good, but different than what I was used to.

Sensing I might be ready, he moved into position. Even though I knew he was taking his time, I got nervous again! This was the main event. He was careful to put tons of lube all over his penis and even more on me. We both knew a lot of lube was the key to a good experience! Then he started to press himself against my butthole. Because I was nervous it was even tighter so he told me to breathe and relax, that he was going to go very, very slowly. He began to enter me ever so slightly and we stayed like that until I felt relaxed. As I relaxed I could feel myself start to open up more to accommodate him and he slowly went further inside me. Once I felt ready he slowly began to do shallow thrusts. This felt surprisingly good and I was dying for some clitoral stimulation so he reached around with his hand and began to touch me there too. I came fast and hard after a few minutes. Once he knew I had cum, he let himself go and in no time, he came too.  

All in all I have to say it was a really good experience. It was different and fun. I loved how my husband respected my nerves and went so slowly. For him it still felt incredible even though we took it so slow. It will definitely be something we do every now and then!

There you have it, guys! I hope her story helps some of you out there. I’d love to hear about your experiences in the comments.

Gabrielle Moore

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Anal Play is Good for Your Health!

When most straight guys think of anal play, they think of themselves doing things to their female partners, but you might be surprised that anal play can include your bum too! That idea might have you ready to close this article right now, but just wait and read on. Anal play for men is practiced by more straight men than you think. In fact, tons of straight guys receive a little anal love, but they might not be quick to admit it to their friends. Why is it so enticing? Well, for one, it can increase the intensity of your orgasm in a big way. Interested? I’m going to tell you exactly why, where, and how in this article!


Why would a straight guy ever consider anal play on himself? Well, for the same reason gay men do, because it feels freaking amazing. Anal play stimulates the prostate, which has been called the male G spot. If you have heard anything about G spot orgasms for women, you’ll know that they are powerful and amazing and different than a regular orgasm. You may have found yourself a little jealous of women’s ability to have these powerful orgasms. Well, with prostate stimulation you have your chance to feel a whole new and more powerful kind of orgasm too.

That’s not all. Prostate massage is good for your health too. Prostate cancer is a big health risk for men, with one in six men being diagnosed in the United States. New research has found that prostate massage can actually reduce your risk of prostate cancer. In addition to that extremely important benefit, it has also been linked to increased sex drive, sexual performance and satisfaction. Okay, so what else do you need to hear? Anal play can reduce your risk of prostate cancer, make you perform better, have a higher libido AND you will be more sexually satisfied. I’m convinced and you probably are too.


The prostate is located about 2 to 2.5 inches inside the male rectum and can be stimulated most directly by inserting a finger into the rectum with your finger facing up toward the stomach. The prostate (or sometimes call the P spot) is small bump about the size of a walnut. When you press on it with your finger you’ll feel a warm rush of pleasure. It might be difficult to find and manipulate with your own hand, which is why partner stimulation can be great or there are also special toys made for prostate stimulation.


Okay, so by now I’m sure you’re warming up to the idea of prostate and anal love after hearing about how great it feels AND how it’s good for you too! Now it’s time to get down to brass tacks. How does it all work?

* First of all, just like women, you guys usually worry about the same things when it comes to anal play. You don’t want your partner to be disgusted by your cleanliness down there and it’s not the easiest area to keep sparkling clean. Start the foreplay off by taking a sexy shower together to get you both in the mood for some lovin’. Of course you can always shower or wash the area yourself before hopping into bed, but that’s not as fun!

* The P spot can be stimulated on its own and provide a super powerful orgasm. You and/or your partner can insert a finger face up or use a toy that is bent at the tip (the same as those used to stimulate the G spot). An important thing to remember is that lube is absolutely essential here. Use a water- based one for best results. Once the finger had been inserted she should stroke the prostate with a come hither-like motion (just like you do to her G spot!).

* Just like stimulating her nether regions, it feels especially amazing to stimulate two areas at once. You can cum from prostate stimulation alone, and I would suggest giving it a try just to see what it’s like! But your partner can also go down on you at the same time or give you a lubed up hand job. Try scooting down to the edge of the bed so your butt hangs off the end for easy access.

* Finally, if you’re totally freaked out by inserting anything into your butt, you can also stimulate the prostate from the outside by rubbing the perineum, which is the area between the base of the penis and your anus. This won’t provide nearly as an intense feeling, but it will still amp up your pleasure somewhat. For beginners, or reluctant partners, this might be a good starting point. Once you have had a little taste of that kind of stimulation you might be up for more.

For the health benefits of prostate massage, it is recommended to do this kind of stimulation at least once a month. For those who already have prostate issues, such as swelling, a weekly massage can reduce swelling and improve urinary and sexual performance.

Gabrielle Moore

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anal love vs hate

Love and Hate and Anal Sex

A lot of men love anal sex, but women? Not so much. They tend to have more of a love/hate relationship with it. Even if a woman likes anal sex, she is rarely as obsessed with it as some men can be. While women might not fully understand the draw of anal sex for men, you can understand her feelings on it. I’m going to share with you the inside scoop. I’m not going to promise that all women feel the same way, but I can share some generalizations that will help you to understand the female experience of anal sex better.

Some people believe that women will either love or hate anal sex. Period. Others think that those that hate it just haven’t done it right yet. My opinion falls somewhere in the middle There are so many guys who don’t seem to know what they’re doing when it comes to anal. If a woman has been with an inexperienced guy and had a bad time, it’s very unlikely that she will want to try anal again, no matter what her partner (or new partner) says. An experience with someone who knows to go very slow, use lots of lubrication (and reapply when necessary!), and to try different positions for maximum comfort is more likely to go well. Of course there will always be women who won’t like it no matter what anal sexpert she is with. But that’s just life. Everyone likes something different in bed. So here is my list of what women love and hate about anal… and what you can do about it.

Oh yes, yes, YES!

1. She says: It feels really good. If done right, anal sex can feel great for a woman. You’re inside her, but you’re not in her vagina. The sensation is awesome, but it’s not what she knows. How to get her there? Always use a lot of lube. Start slow and continue to go slow unless you get the green light from her to speed things up. Now, when I say go slow, I’m talking about really, painfully slow. Give her time to relax. If she is nervous she might inadvertently tense up her rectum and that will cause pain. If you go very slowly then she will be able to relax into and it will be less likely that she’ll feel pain. Most of the sensitive nerve endings are concentrated in the anal opening, the surrounding area and just inside. This means you don’t need to go too deep in order for her to get the most out of it. Once you’re in, reach your hand around and stimulate her clitoris. She can (and likely will!) have a powerful orgasm from the combined sensations of anal penetration and clitoral stimulation. Remember to take it easy!

2. She says: It’s so taboo! Another big turn off of anal sex is that it’s still very taboo. Even though more and more couples are trying it and incorporating it into their sexual repertoire, it still something that many people don’t talk about doing. It’s still considered quite naughty. For many women, feeling like a bad girl, even if it’s just for a night, is a huge turn on. She can behave all the time outside the bedroom, but this let’s her be oh-so-bad without anyone being the wiser.


   1. She says: It hurts. You have to remember our rules about going slowly and using tons of lube, but for some women anal sex just hurts or is too uncomfortable to enjoy. The vagina is made to stretch and accommodate, but the rectum is not the same. If you are particularly well endowed you might find that anal sex is off the table for you. It might hurt to much no matter how slow you go. If it’s painful, try inserting just the tip of your penis. If she still says ouch, you might have to just explore other anal pleasures (like analigus and fingering).

   2. She says: It’s dirty, and not in a good way. Some women are turned off to anal sex because they think it’s dirty and messy. Women want to be attractive, sexy, and smelling good for their partners, so the idea of poo being involved in their sexiest moment might be a huge turn off. There are a few things she can do to prepare and avoid possible leaking. First she can give herself an enema. If that idea is too intense, then she can also make sure she has gone to the bathroom and emptied her bowels before anal sex. She can also shower first to clean the area. In fact, you can shower together and make it part of your foreplay!

As always, if your partner is more of a hater of anal than a lover, you might just have to accept that it’s not in the cards for you. She’s never going to enjoy it if she’s really against it because she has to go into it with an open mind. Plus no one likes being hassled into something, especially when it comes to sex! But if she’s up for it, remember my tips to turn her into a lover 100%!

Gabrielle Moore

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Analingus – Only Adventurous Lovers Need Apply

“The man’s tongue slips further south than he intended, and both lovers realize they’ve crossed a line.” – Michael Castleman, M.A.

It’s a bit taboo. It’s kind of naughty. It’s not the type of sex you talk about at length with your guy friends… yet… yet, you’re dying to try it. Analingus is the term for oral sex performed on the butthole. Some people might cringe at the thought while others get excited at the mere mention of it. Although anything sexual related to the butt might be off limits to some, research shows that 36% of American women and 44% of American men have engaged in anal sex. That’s a huge number of people who are already exploring the pleasures of anal play. Are you up for it? Here’s your guide to this forbidden pleasure…

Keeping it Clean

  • Most people’s concerns about anything involving the butt have to do with cleanliness. It makes sense. The main function of the anus is something that is much less than appealing to most, but don’t worry, we’re going to take care of that. The first step in this process is a sexy bath or shower. You can treat this part of the process as foreplay. Light some candles in the bathroom and wash your partner from head to toe, making sure to get the designated area nice and clean. Being bathed is very erotic, so it serves to both prepare you for analigus and to get you both in the mood.
  • Use a dental dam. For those that don’t know, a dental dam is a thin sheet of latex used for protection during oral sex on a woman. The latex goes over the area you want to stimulate. An unlubricated condom cut into a flat piece of latex will also do the job.
  • Don’t go back and forth between the butt and the vagina without sanitizing first. If you use your finger or a sex toy in her butt, then you can’t use it again in her vagina because you could give her an infection. Keep separate toys or wash them before using them again in her vagina.

Analingus Tips and Tricks

  • Breathe – This area is super sensitive, so start by blowing hot air onto the area or breathing heavily.
  • Kissing – The anus isn’t the only part of the butt that is sensitive to touch. The whole area is an erogenous zone. You can start by licking, sucking, and kissing the lower back and tailbone. Make your way down the butt crack while kneading the butt cheeks with your hands. Kiss, lick and suck on the butthole and perineum (the area between the anus and the vaginal opening). You can also give some loving attention to her inner thighs.
  • Lick & Suck – Flex your tongue so it’s hard and pointy and trace the area of the anus with the tip. Poke and prod the area with the tip. You can even penetrate her with your tongue if you want. Then relax your tongue so it becomes soft and wide. Lap at the area, rub and push against it with your tongue. Suck on the area with your lips puckered and moist.
  • Fingers – Use some lube and get your hands involved. Caress and massage her butt cheeks. Gently pull them apart and touch the anus with your fingers. Penetrate her with one finger gently and slowly, only entering a little bit. The most sensitive nerve endings are at the entrance and the surrounding areas. While you’re using your mouth on her butt you can reach your (clean) hands around to play with her clit or finger her vagina.
  • Sex Toys – You can use a vibrator to provide sensation on the anus. You can also use a dildo or vibrator to penetrate her either in her vagina while you lick her butt, or alternate between analingus and penetrating her ass with the sex toy.
  • Positions – Try this with your partner face down, but with her butt propped up in the air with a few pillows. A traditional doggy style position is also useful and gives a sexy view for you. She could also sit on your face or you could do a 69 position and double your fun!

Why is this naughty pleasure so amazing? Well, apart from its taboo nature, which is a turn on for many, the anus and the surrounding area is full of super sensitive nerve endings that make oral sex mind blowing. So the next time you’re going down on your girl, why not head south of the border and see what happens?

Have fun, you naughty thing!
Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more advanced information about anal sex and anal pleasure, click here… 

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Anal Play For Beginners

Hey, there lover!  Welcome to your intro guide to Anal Play for Beginners—Rosebud of Love.

In my last article I talked about anal sex toys and how they are a good way to introduce your lover to anal sex.  Today, I want to go a bit deeper (pun intended!) into the subject of anal play, and talk about anal foreplay, anal massage and the do’s and don’ts of anal sex.  Because, if there is one thing I know about anal sex, if you do it right you will bring her to orgasm and she will want it again and again.  But, if you do it wrong—that’s it, the booty party is OVER!

So, sweetheart, let’s learn how to do it right!  Are ya with me?  Great!


When trying anything new in the bedroom, you will want to talk about it out of the bedroom first.  This is especially true with anal sex, because it has in the past been considered taboo, dirty and at one time was even against the law.  Nowadays, however, many couples are getting more interested in anal sex as it becomes more mainstream, for it can be very pleasurable.

So, I encourage you to talk to your lover about your interest in trying anal sex with her, read my articles on anal sex together, so you are both better educated, and talk about any concerns, fears, or expectations you may have first.

Getting Ready

Before you begin she will want to use the bathroom and eliminate any waste.  Next, and nice bath or shower either alone or together and washing the anal area very well will give you both confidence that there won’t be any accidents during anal play.  This also helps to relax her, which is essential to anal play.  And, a sexy bath or shower together is a great start on foreplay.

Next, make sure to have latex gloves or finger cots on hand.  Also, any anal toys you’d like to play with and lots and lots of lubricant as well as massage oil.  You may also want to place a big comfy towel on the bed, just in case there is any discharge during sex.  Also, having sex wipes nearby may come in handy as well.


As with any type of lovemaking, we start with foreplay.  That means all over the body foreplay and not just in the area of interest.  The more your lover is turned on, the more she will relax and enjoy anal sex.

Rosebud of Love Massage

The anus is extremely sensitive and has a rich supply of blood vessels and nerves, which are involved with sexual arousal.  As erotic energy escalates, the anus also becomes aroused.  When we reach orgasm and our muscles go into contractions, the anus opens and closes and twitches in sync as well.  How cool is that?!

The Rosebud of Love Massage is an anal foreplay technique that is designed to get her in the mood for anal sex or any type of sex.  It can also be very enjoyable all on its own and lead to orgasm.

1.     Make sure you lover is lying comfortably on her tummy.  She may want to place a pillow under her pelvis to prop her butt up in the air and give you better access.

2.     Begin by pouring massage oil on your hands to warm it up and give her a slow back rub from shoulder to hips in long slow sweeps down her back.  Do this a few times until she relaxes.

3.     Next, pour more massage oil and rub her buttocks in big circles and then begin kneading them like bread.  Do this gently adding more pressure as she likes it.

4.     If she likes it you can gently smack her cheeks and alternate this with more kneading.

5.     Pour warmed massage oil in the crevasse between her cheeks as you spread them apart with your hands.  Softly rub the sides of your hands up and down between the cheeks as she opens to you exposing her rosebud, or anus pucker.

6.     Next, wipe your hands on a towel and slip on gloves or finger cots.  Rub the pad of your finger around the anal pucker, exploring the sensitive rosebud of love.

7.     Allow her to relax fully and lube your finger up with a good anal lubricant (thick water-based or silicone).  Apply gentle pressure to the anus, but don’t push in.  Simply apply firm but gentle pressure and continue to stroke her rosebud in small circles.

8.     Allow the rosebud to pucker over your finger and slowly press inward until the first knuckle.  Take your time and remind her to breath.  Once inside, don’t move, just allow her to get used to the sensation.

9.     As she relaxes, continuing to breath, twist your finger back and forth, pressing gently into the sphincter and walls of the anus to loosen it up.  This will help her relax more and turn her on.

10.  Once the anus is adequately stretched, you can slide your fingers in and out simulating intercourse.  Let her determine the speed and depth of penetration.

Now she is warmed up for anal sex, or other sorts of erotic pleasures.  For some women, rosebud massage can lead to orgasm.  Other women may need other types of stimulation as well including clitoral or G-spot with the aid of toys, or your penis or fingers.

Anal Do’s and Don’ts

  • Anal Do’s
  • Have a bowel movement beforehand.
  • Have a bath and get clean.
  • Use a condom, finger cots or latex gloves to avoid infections and transmitting STDs during anal sex and anal play.
  • Trim nails of rough edges.
  • Relax, breath and take it slow.
  • Use lots of lube. I mean lots.
  • Stop if there is pain.
  • Communicate with your partner.
  • Allow her to be in control of the speed and depth of penetration.

Anal Don’ts

  • Hurry or force it.
  • Pressure your partner into it if they are not ready.
  • Never go from the anus to the vagina as the anus contains a lot of bacteria which can cause yeast infections and interrupt the natural flora of a woman’s body chemistry. Always change your gloves or condom or wash your toy and disinfect.

And, don’t forget!  Communication is the key to any good sexual experience.  Talk about your experience before, during and afterwards to make sure you set up limits and guidelines as well as get feedback on what worked and what didn’t.  Doing it right the first time, means you will get a chance to do it again.

Play safe and have fun!

Gabrielle Moore


Anal Sex Toys for Beginners

Hey, there lover!  Welcome to your intro guide to Anal Sex Toys for Beginners.

Anal sex is not as taboo as it once was, and many of couples are interested in trying it out for the first time.  But to begin with it is often better to start slowly and playfully with fingers and toys, rather than going full on anal sex penetration.  

Here’s why:

  1. First your penis may be larger than your partner can handle if she is a beginner.  I know you might think that’s a good thing, but in the case of anal play, size is something she may have to work up to as the anal sphincter is small and not used to stretching.  With sex toys, you can choose a size suitable to what she can handle.
  2. Beginners trying anal sex for the first time may be too enthusiastic and thrust too hard, too deep or too fast to begin with.  With sex toys, it is a lot easier to control the depth, force and speed of penetration.
  3. Sex toys also allow you to explore and experiment which is essential to learning this new skill.

Before You Get Started

Okay, guys, before you go all out with toys and anal play, be sure to get her warmed up first!  I know, I say this over and over again, but foreplay (and lots of it) is the starting point for any great sex.  So, here are a few tips to get you started:

  • Make sure she is 100% on board before you begin.  That means talk about trying anal sex with her first, allow her to express her fears and doubts, and go over the do’s and don’ts of anal sex together.
  • Foreplay.  Again, the F-word here, but it is very important especially when trying something new and as taboo as anal sex that she gets very turned on first.  Start with kissing, licking, oral sex, fondling and fingering first, before you go near her butt.
  • Lube.  Lube is your best friend when you are having anal sex.  The rectum does not self-lubricate like the vagina, so needs lots and lots of lubricant.  We recommend a good thick water-based lubricant for anal sex, especially if you are using silicone sex toys.  Butt! (pun intended) Don’t get numbing lubes with Benzocaine, because if you are doing it right she shouldn’t have any pain, and it is important for her to be able to feel it for both safety and pleasure reasons.  Makes sense right?!

Toys for Anal Sex

Okay, lover, let’s get the good times rolling!  There a lots of different sex toys used for anal sex.  Some are better than others for beginners.

Anal Beads

Anal Beads are the least intrusive type of anal toy.  Basically, they are a bunch of beads (usually in varying sizes from smallest to biggest) along a length of string.  They can be made out of metal, glass or softer materials like silicone or PVC Jelly.  We recommend silicone toys for anal play as they are 100% body safe and are the only type of soft sex toy material that can be disinfected because they are non-porous.  This makes them perfect for anal play, as you will want to disinfect your toys before and after play.

To use anal beads you begin by inserting the smallest bead inside a well-lubricated anus.  Wait and see how she feels then continue slowly inserting the rest.  Then just let them do their job stimulating her anus while you bring her to pleasure either via oral/clitoral sex or penetration.  Just as she is experiencing orgasm, pull the string of beads slowly out which will give her a rush of exquisite pleasure.  Make sure the anal beads you choose have a good retrieval ring!

Butt Plugs

Butt Plugs are usually triangle shaped and have a flanged wide base at the bottom to stop them from going in too far.  Basically you never want to put something in the butt that doesn’t have a flanged base or retrieval ring as things have been known to get lost up there.  Eeek!  They come in various sizes and materials, however we recommend starting small and using a softer silicone material.  You can also purchase anal starter kits which are great for beginners as they feature butt plugs in different sizes that she can work her way up to, in preparation for penile penetration.

Again, using lots of lube, insert the top side of the butt plug very slowly into the anus, inch by inch, giving her time to breathe and relax in between.  Just press the tip against her anus until she opens up and allows you access, and her sphincter muscles will begin to pull the toy in.  Once it is all the way inserted, she can leave it in for quite a while to get used to the feeling.  Continue with foreplay, sex-play and bring her to orgasm, at which point she may push the butt plug out again due to the force of her orgasm.  Whoa Mamma!

Anal Vibrators

Anal Vibrators can be shaped like anal beads, butt plugs or anal dildos.  Only difference is they vibrate, which can be very pleasurable for some people.  Choose an anal vibrator that is soft and flexible, as well as small, thin and curved.  If curved properly, you can actually access her G-spot via her anus with the right kind of toy.  A G-spot vibrator works great for this and will double her pleasure (both anally and vaginally) if you gently press toward the frontal wall and rub her sweet spot there.

Try placing the vibrator just at the opening to her anus and rubbing it around with lots of thick lube.  This will feel wonderful and is a great foreplay technique.  Next, slowly insert the vibe bit by bit, until she doesn’t want any more.  Then rub it and press against the inner wall of her anus to reach her G-spot below.  Watch out, as she will probably have a mind-blowing orgasm like never before!

Remember, communication is the key to any good sexual experience.  Make sure to check with her often for feedback, so you both get the most out of your first time trying anal toys together.  The better it is her first time, the more she will be willing to explore more anal fun with you in the future.

Play safe and have fun!
Gabrielle Moore


The Ultimate Anal Sex Positions, Part 2

So many guys get hot and bothered about anal sex, but women aren’t always on the same page. If your partner is dead set against it, I wouldn’t push for it. There are women who genuinely don’t enjoy it. That being said, there are also a lot of men who aren’t doing it right. A bad experience could be chalked up to inexperience. Even though you shouldn’t try to convince your partner to do something she doesn’t want to do, if she is up for it, there are lots of ways to make sure that it’s a good experience for both of you.

  • She should be 100% relaxed and very turned on. Take your time getting there. If you rush it then you’re more likely to for her to get nervous, clench down and then it’s definitely going to hurt her and that’s not enjoyable at all.
  • When starting out with anal play, go very, very shallow. All the nerve endings that she will get pleasure from are in the anus. If you slowly insert the tip (finger or penis, with LOTS of lube), that will begin to get her warmed up and you will be able to feel when she starts getting more relaxed.
  • Practice multiple stimulation techniques. Your best bet is to probably reach around and stimulate her clitoris at the same time. This will feel amazing and help her to continue to stay relaxed.
  • LUBE! I know I already mentioned this in the first part of this article, but just in case you haven’t made it over there yet, this is a tip that can’t be left out. Silicone based lube and lots of it, fellas.


The Positions, Part 2

  1. The 90 degree angle – With this position you will be lying on your side and she will be lying on her back at a 90 degree angle from your body so her genitals line right up with yours. This will allow her to relax and her anus will naturally open more at this position, making penetration easier. You will have access to touch her clitoris, vulva, and breasts and she can access your balls if she wants.
  2. The Rocking Horse – You sit cross legged on the bed and lean back, holding yourself up with your arms. She will straddle you and find the best position for entry. The only drawback here is that you will have to use your hands to hold yourself up and that means you won’t be able to touch her, but she can grind her clitoris against your pelvic bone or touch herself and give you quite a show.
  3. Modified Rocking Horse – For some guys sitting with their legs crossed is not the most comfortable position. If that’s the case with you, try extending your legs forward with modified rocking horse. You won’t need to hold yourself up with your arms with this one so it also frees up your hands to explore her body. Plus the elevated position puts her breasts right in your face and close to your mouth!
  4. Reverse Cowgirl – This popular position is also great for anal sex. It gives the woman a lot of control over speed and depth and it gives you a sexy eye full. You lie down flat on your back and she straddles you facing toward your feet instead of your face.
  5. Doggy Style and variations – Doggy style is definitely the go to position when it comes to anal sex. It makes sense given the position of each person, but I need to give you a word of caution. Many of the benefits of the other positions I mentioned is that it gives the woman more control over depth and speed. This is essential in anal sex in order for it not to hurt her. In doggy style the man will have all the control, so you need to remember to go slow and not get too carried away. Communicate with each other.
    Try this variation by having her hold her upper body up over a stack of pillows. You will enter from behind and lay your whole body over hers. This provides a lot of sexy skin to skin contact.
    Try standing doggy style or using the stairs in your home to position her at just the right angle.


As always, communication is key to any good sexual experience and anal sex is no different. Check in with her to make sure what you’re doing feels okay, if she might want more lube, and if you’re going too fast or hard.

Enjoy yourselves!
Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Don’t forget to check out the first part of this article that gives you some great preparation advice and more sexy positions!


The Ultimate Anal Sex Positions, Part 1

It’s that naughty subject that women either love or hate: anal sex. Whether you have tried it with your partner or are just dying to, anal sex isn’t something that you should enter into blindly. The more you know on the subject the better the experience will be for both of you (and especially for her!). If anal sex is something you want her to enjoy and want to repeat with you then you need to read on about the best anal sex positions. There is more than just one, in fact, there are many!

The Preparation

Here are some quick tips to get you started.

  • Get her warmed up first. Foreplay is KEY to a good anal sex experience. Tease her. Give her oral sex. Do all the things she loves to get her super excited.
  • Lube is your best friend, use it and NOT sparingly. The vagina produces its own lubrication, but the anus does not. Lube is super important to a good experience. Use a silicone based one.
  • Take things slow. Ease into it. You can’t thrust or penetrate her like you do with vaginal sex. The anus is much smaller and doesn’t accommodate in the same way.


The Positions, Part 1

  1. Spoons – Just like you’re cuddling or “spooning” in bed, except waaay more fun. If she bends her legs and stretches them out a bit then her anus will naturally open a little, allowing for easier access. This is a great position because it’s relaxing, and you want her to feel relaxed or anal sex is just not going to work. It also gives you easy access to reaching around to stimulate her clitoris, which you should definitely be doing.
  2. Double Decker – You can easily move into the next position from the spoons position. It’s essentially the same thing but with you lying flat on your back and your partner lying on her back on top of you. This provides a ton of body contact and closeness and allows her to control the speed and intensity of your penetration. The position might sound tough for vaginal sex, but remember that anal sex should be slower. This also gives you 100% access to her whole body because she will be splayed out on top of you. Take advantage of that to touch her breasts, clit and everywhere else!
  3. Girl on Top (modified) – It’s not just your typical woman on top position because your partner will have to adjust her angle to make sure that you can enter her comfortably. Just like the position above, this gives her the ultimate control over penetration and speed and gives you an amazing view with full access to pleasing some of the best parts of her body. Have her try leaning backward. This will stretch and pull on the clitoris slightly, which can be extremely pleasurable!
  4. The Chair – You will be seated for this position in a chair with no arms and your partner will straddle you. Make sure that the chair is low enough to the ground so that her feet touch the ground and allow her to move up and down on your penis. In this position you will be face to face will which allow for added intimacy.
  5. Downward Modified Scissor – Many men love the view of their partner from behind. This position offers a sexy view of her posterior, but is a little different than your typical doggy style. She will be lying face down on the bed and you will be on top with one leg extended in between her two legs and the other bent on one side of her body. This is a great position to try for first timers or when you’re just starting to have anal sex. The position doesn’t allow for really deep penetration so she will have time to get used to the position and will be in a comfortable and relaxing position to do so.

This is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to anal sex positions. The second part of this article will give you even more juicy new techniques to try out. Stay tuned!

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. You probably had no idea there were so many different ways to try anal sex. Don’t forget to follow up on my next post to see the rest of the HOT list.  


How to have hot outside sex

… without getting poison ivy, heatstroke, or… arrested.

”Your clothes are making me uncomfortable. Please take them off.”

There’s nothing like a sexy outside romance. But getting down during the dog days comes with its own unique set of hazards: sun rash, dehydration, bees. The good news: There are plenty of ways to take advantage of the warm weather and perv out in seasonally specific settings. All you need is a little foresight and a dash of preparation and you can have plenty of outdoor kicks while avoiding jail, injury, and hypervigilant amusement-park attendants. Follow these pointers and positions, and as your high school crush once wrote in your yearbook, have a great summer!


What better way to commune with nature? Try The Lumberjack: Leaning against the tree and facing him, lift one leg and wrap it around his body while he holds on to the trunk for balance. Bonus: Your thighs will get as good a workout as if you’d actually finished that three-mile hike.


Since you probably spent two to six hours erecting your tent and making tent-erecting jokes, avoid any position that involves too much flailing. Otherwise, you will become tangled in the tent and it will collapse on you, and you will remember that camping is horrible and the best place to have summertime sex is in a cloud-soft, ice-cream-parlorchilly hotel bed. Try the trusty, compact spoon position.


Having sex in the woods isn’t rocket science. Deer can do it, and they’re very stupid. Probably your biggest hazards here are hikers and park rangers, who love rules and getting people who are more fun than they are in trouble. Just keep on as much clothing as possible, so you can pretend you were “only dry humping” if caught (and also to avoid ticks). And watch out for poison ivy! As the saying goes: if you see leaves of three, don’t rub your genitals on me.


Water makes you buoyant! Take advantage! Try The Dirty Mermaid: Face your guy while he stands, wrap your arms and legs around him, and go to town while he holds your legs for support. Best attempted during adult swim. One caveat: Condoms and water don’t mix. One more caveat: Water washes away your natural lubrication, so extra (nonsoluble) lube might be necessary. Maybe try a little making out, Dirty Mermaid–style, and then head to dry land for the real action.…


If you’ve seen literally any horror movie and “parking” somewhere remote still appeals to you, well congratulations on your nerves of steel. Just make sure to lay down something on the seat, because there’s nothing worse than peeling your sweaty nude buttocks off ovenhot upholstery. Don’t even think of running the AC, because your car battery will die and then the Zodiac killer will murder you.


You should really be more concerned about who you’re having sex with at a music festival. You don’t want to end up on some stranger’s Instagram with the caption “Gross hippie couple going at it.” If you must, try to incorporate one of the musicians, so you can at least do it in a climate-controlled tour bus like a human being.


Set a course for orgasm! Board The Pleasure Craft: Have your first mate lie on his back, grab some rope, and tie his wrists to the life rail. Mutiny on the Bounty, baby—you’ve taken him prisoner at sea. Just remember, move with the motion of the boat to avoid seasickness and injury. (Also, maybe pop a Dramamine before going at it on deck.)


This is a great idea if you live in a high-rise or anywhere with a flat, level top. It’s not so great if you have Spanish tile or live in a Swiss ski chalet. Roof sex may require a little advance reconnaissance, because you’ll need to make sure you’re not in a busy elicopter flight path or near a belching heat vent. Just bring up that yoga mat you never use (roof gravel = not sexy), and give those pigeons/neighbors with binoculars a show they won’t forget.


First, be sure to check for rusty hardware, ants, and dry rot. All clear? Sit on the edge of the table with your legs on the bench, and have your guy sit on the bench between them, facing you, his head level with your thighs. Get it? It’s a picnic! And you’re so much better than PB&J.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you have a towel or a blanket, you can also try doing it on a beach (as long as it’s deserted!). If you fall victim to the old sand-in-the-cracks predicament, a warm bath should do the trick.


Her body blueprint

“70% of women miss dirty sex but they are ashamed to tell their partners about it.”

Is your sex life getting so boring you want to scream? Is your partner careless and almost numb to all your efforts between the sheets? Then you might need to revamp those foreplay skills. Our bodies are a hotbed of sexual pleasure to be discovered. Take your time and delve into each other if you want the most mind blowing orgasms of your life. Give your, and her nooks and crannies some love for a surprisingly sexy night!

Zone 1: Kissing

Most of us probably won’t spend a whole night making out if it’s not going to lead to sex. But we should. I always tell people to designate at least one day a month to kissing to help build intimacy. Avoiding all major erogenous zones will also get your body to refocus. Try a variety of styles all over the body: soft, hard, fast, slow, tongue and no tongue.

Zone 2: Ears

Four different sensory nerves make up the external ear, making them supersensitive. Give those cute little things some attention! Try a gentle nibble, a quick lick, or softly blowing on your partner’s earlobe. Whispering your desires with a hot and heavy breath will drive her totally wild. While you can nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well, for courtesy’s sake avoid jamming your tongue inside her ear.

Zone 3: Neck

The neck is the first place you turn to when you want to turn someone on. It’s a total hot spot thanks to the carotid artery, which pumps blood through your body. Try breathing against it or lightly running your fingers over it. Make your way to the collar bone and give that spot a hard kiss. Try the nape of her neck as well. In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was seen as very attractive by men since it was one of the few places not covered by clothing. In modern times, the nape of the neck is often neglected in favor of more obvious pleasure centers, but never underestimate the power of gentle touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders.

Zone 4: Armpit

Though it may not seem sexy, you’ve been overlooking this hidden pleasure spot for years. Because they contain a major artery, your armpits can be a hotbed of sensitivity. If your partner enjoys a little bit of pain during sex, I suggest pressing your thumb into the hollow of her armpit, a pressure point. It can be a great way to incorporate some kink.

Zone 5: Above the butt

Our booties aren’t the only erogenous zones. Try massaging the hollow area of the lower back when you want to turn her on. It’s always good fun to explore around the obvious sexy parts. What makes this teaser so hot is that it’s fairly innocent, but it still feels kind of risqué. However, you’ll have to resist the urge to slip down to her vagina while you’re so close. Like teasing her inner thighs, kissing and licking around her bum will excite her until she’s begging for more. Prolong the sensation by leaving the region to focus on another body part for a while.

Zone 6: Nipples

Nipples are attached to a section of nerves that connect to the brain and genitals. When one of her love buttons is touched, the others are likely to be awoken. Pinch, suck, or lightly bite her nipples while you explore other parts of her body with your hands.

Zone 7: Abs

Licking, kissing and sucking the rib area can really turn a woman on. Make your way down to the belly button, another secret hot spot. Because the clitoris and the belly button grow from the same tissue in the womb, they are neurologically linked in adulthood. Before you lick her there, lightly place your finger inside to see for yourself how it feels.

Yes, every inch of her body is covered with nerve endings that could be stimulated, but that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t have some no-go places. Some women can’t stand to have their faces touched, while others find it unbearable if their hands are tickled. As you explore, you’ll learn which places your touch has the best effect on and which you should avoid.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Re-write history on the map of her body by exploring these hot spots. Actually, how about taking an entire night just for this: arousing her senses so much that she won’t be able to wait any longer and scream for you to be inside her?