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Anal Foreplay: The secret to a sensual butt massage

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Anal Foreplay: The secret to a sensual butt massage

“I think you’re running into a lot of trouble if your idea of foreplay is, ‘Brace yourself honey, here I come!”– Phil McGraw

A great way to prove your love for her back parts is to stimulate her with a good, sexy massage. The gluteus maximus, the main butt muscle that gives each buttock its round shape, is one of the biggest, chunkiest muscles of the body, meaning it loves being massaged.

Because there’s usually quite a bit of fat covering the muscle, you can be rougher in your massaging technique. Here’s what you have to do to really put her in the mood:

-Relax before you start in order to make sure that your hands are up for the effort (you wouldn’t want to stop after two minutes, leaving her eager for more).

-Lie her on her stomach, her legs slightly parted.

-Slide your hands to her buttocks with soft caresses, using any relaxation or toning oil you have at hand.

Aromatherapy is a powerful tool for stimulating arousal in both men and women, so you might want to choose the fragrance of your oil carefully. Here’s a list of the most basic oils, each with its respective beneficial properties.

a) orange blossom- it has a sedative and relaxation power. It transports one to a dreamlike state. Perfect if she’s the romantic type and you want to show her that anal pleasure can be romantic also.

b) cinnamon- perfect if she usually lacks sexual desire, is moody and hard to satisfy. The smell of cinnamon will enhance her senses and he’ll be more open to experimenting.

c) mint- tonic and stimulant, it will wake not only her body, but also her mind. If she just got back from work and she’s tired, use some mint oil to get her whole body going your way.

d) lemon- energy inducing! It also reduces inflammation of the erogenous zones.

e) patchouli- it is perfect to calm excessive anxiety, so it should be on your top list of choices. Fill the whole room with patchouli smelling candles and she’ll feel more ok with the idea, though she won’t really know what changed her mind.

f) rose- a tonic for the heart, stomach, liver, and uterus, it regulates the functioning of the female sexual organs. I’m sure she must have something which contains roses perfume in her beauty cupboard. Massage her with her favorite lotion before going down to business.

– Alternate between three types of manipulation:

a) Rubbing. Place your hands flat on your girl’s back, with your fingers relaxed, and apply pressure. Make small circular movements with your thumbs or the pads of your fingers, travelling up the inside edges of her cheeks and back down the outsides. This has a relaxing effect, which is felt at the nerves located under the skin.

b) Kneading. Kneading consists of energetic motions that imitate the kneading of dough, and is particularly helpful for releasing accumulated tension. To do it well, you must press the skin between your thumb and your fingers and sink the thumb into the muscle mass. With your fingers, push the muscle toward you again. Move your hands, alternating between one and the other, pressing, pushing, and lifting the skin.

c) Friction. Friction consists of pressing rather small, specific areas, which induces a very pleasant, restful sensation. It is important to push the tip of the thumb downward and perform short rotational motions to achieve a deeper penetration. Friction has an analgesic effect and stimulates blood flow.

– To keep things more interesting, try this exercise also: holding as much of each buttock in your hand as you can, move her cheeks in circles, spreading them and letting them get back together again.

– Your hands must work like energy radars, alert to the sensations of pleasure expressed by her at each movement. When she shows signs of fulfillment, it is important to keep focusing on that respective move or part of skin.

Have a delicious week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If she’s one of those girls that like to spice things up with a little roughness during intercourse, approach her with pats or slaps on the bum.

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